Is it bad that I'm in love with a married woman

Hi, Well we don't really know the circumstances behind anything really. What kind of marriage do they have or what is lacking in it for her, that she's interested in you? Also does she have kids in this marriage? Are you two thinking in terms of long term or a shorter temporary situation? I don't know fwabam, but these things rarely work out and usually just lead to a illicit type of affair really. You need to consider all the parties involved that would be hurt by your "affair". You have to consider though that if she's cheating on her husband with you, than who's to say that she wouldn't cheat on you with some other guy? There are a lot of married slimey people out there that are just bored or just want a "booty call". I don't know her so I won't assume anything, but I think you deserve to be with someone who is foremost, single and unattached with no baggage. Also what about holidays like Christmas for example, do you really just want to be the other guy? I'm sure she'll likely be with her husband and kids eating XMAS dinner in the dining room, together as a family, while you pine for her to be with you. That sounds really sad fwabam, and I'd like to see you get together with someone other than this woman, someone that will make you happy and is above all else, available. A lot of married people swear that they'll leave their spouses to be with a love interest, but from what I've seen in my social circle, it rarely ever seems to happen. Think twice before you do anything. Good luck to you though, I do wish you well and I wouldn't want to see you hurt.

That rather depends on if she's married to you or not..you don't say.

well a real man wouldnt mess around with her, because for one it could turn bad, two you wouldnt want your wife to do that too. you should tell her if she wants you as you want her then she should break it off with her husband. but most guys wouldnt care,

Do you think that she will ever leave her husband for you?Have you ever seen her out with her husband,if you did see her with her husband how would you feel inside.If you have a place where she can move into then why has she not moved in with you if she loves you that much.Ask yourself these questions and you will have the answers to your question.

Hi there friend it's better to stop your relationship it's not good. You're making a very bad mistake. this verse might help you.. Exodus 20:14 your already violating this commandment..

Please try to ignore each other,this kind of relationship is not good for each others life

Don't entangle yourself in the cobweb of a marriage. By reciprocating her love you are a party to the breakup of her marriage. You should try to ignore her as she might only be trying to escape from her marriage problems. Don't mistake it as true love. You are better off with a single woman without heavy emotional baggage to shoulder. Continuing your relationship with her will see many hearts broken which I think will haunt you for the rest of your life.

u r not only spoiling ur life but other peoples life also.better to avoid such an relationship.come out of this fantasy time is a healer. u will find ur girl soon. what u think is what u r .change ur thinking everything will change.think of a healthy relation ship.

As long as she is married, there is no future with her. I'm assuming by your post that she is still with her husband and not seperated from him, yet still "legally" married. There are too many woman in this world to choose from, and you deserve more than to be #2 in anyone's life. And that's what you are. She can't take you to holiday parties, family get-togethers, childrens functions, anything. You are a secret in her closet. I'm sorry to be so blunt but it's true. And...if she's cheating on him, she would cheat on you. No matter what the situation is, cheaters have a way of justifying their actions. Go out in this big ole' world and find a single woman you can love and who will also appreciate you. She's out there, just be patient, you will find her, and she won't hide you in the closet! Best wishes!

It will be difficult for both of you because each could ruin a relationship. No one like to do that in either way. Think of it several times before you decide. The one you love should end first her current relationship if he really loves you.