My Husband Told me DONT GO!
By jemaries
@jemaries (321)
Saudi Arabia
October 30, 2009 1:30am CST
Last night i asked permission to my husband to go in our gatherings with my co-workers,because were going to celebrate the birthday of my friends.I asked my husband if he want to come with me or can i go with them,and then he said dont go because he has worked in the afternoon and he will be alone, i told him that i will come back before he will go to work.And he replied again "DONT GO with the celebration?Do think should i respect his decision not to go?Is it reasonable his decision?
6 responses
@gongdong (24)
• China
30 Oct 09
If i was your husband,i think i would not do as him.maybe he do not like lonely,i do not know.You should go to join the birthday,your friends will be happy if you can be there.I think you should have a talk with you husband and try to change his opinion.Best wishes for you!
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
30 Oct 09
It is upto you...And the main thing is there should be mutual understanding..If one doesnt understand than the other should understand...and just be happy in the decision...If your husband needs you than be wth him..
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Nov 09
jemaries we must have different customs as I am in the uS. We do not have to ask our husbands for permission to go anywhere. we are adults, not children, and are free to go or not as we please. Why must you ask permission from your husband to go anywhere? You are an adult, not his child? I would certainly go to the birthday celebration if I were you, and tell him to read or watch television if he gets lonesome.YOu are not a child and he should not be making you ask for permission for anything. How dare he? I bet a nickle he never asks you for permission. Are women not treated as equals where you are? If not they should rise up and demand to be treated fairly.
@doormouse (4599)
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31 Oct 09
you don't need to ask his permission,you are your own person,and how dare he say no,just coz he does'nt want to be alone,i'd tell him to get over it,and that it's your life and you can do what you want with it
@buping (952)
• China
30 Oct 09
hi jemaries, to be honest, i can not understand why your husband do not permit you going to the birthday party. i think you can invite him to go with you, try to persuade him to go with you. as he does nor permit you going, i think you should respect him, do not quarrel or shout at him. respect and communications are so important between couples. you need a good conversation.
