What if the person you love was going to die in a few months
By velocity_186
@velocity_186 (879)
India
October 30, 2009 7:43am CST
If you knew your girlfriend or your partner was going to leave you in a couple of months , if you loved her/him more than anything in this world
what would you do , You know his/her health is really down
and there are no chances she/he could stay with u
In such a case if u were not settled with a good job , and she wanted u to get in a job and marry her before this , and u really wanted to marry him/her but u were not in a good job and to take care of her and ask her parents for her
in india it is a rule a ritual where in u should ask them before u marry the girl and their agreement is must atleast not 4 u but for the girl
what could u do
y does god love some people so much that he takes them away from u
y isnt life always happy
y ?
6 responses
@buckiem (129)
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30 Oct 09
If you love her then marry her it does not matter how much money you have it does not cost much to marry surely her parents would want her to be happy in her last moments that's all that matters at the end of the day her happiness and it should not cost a lot to get married.
@velocity_186 (879)
• India
30 Oct 09
her parents dont know about this she doesnt wanna tell them about all this and trouble them
i am going mad thinking everything
every moment i spent with her is coming back to my mind
i cannot see this happening
i really dont know how to get out of it
wish this is just a bad dream
i really wish if i could go back when things wer fine
@stylishious1986 (21)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Well , it's a different situation 'coz you're a man and you should be the one to marry the girl. If I were to put myself in the man's shoe, I'll marry the girl 'coz I love her that much and I know that's the only thing I can make her happy during her last few days of her life and maybe even when she's in the other world.
We don't own our life so it is expected that we are all passers by, everything is just borrowed so, we have to give it back. We have to understand that life is what we make it. We may be happy today but it doesn't mean it is like that again tomorrow.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Well, i am gonna spend my day every day to my dying lover and show all the love, care, respect, devotion and joy. Then, i would not let her confine to the bed, if he could still walk. i would bring here to see beautiful places and appreciate to see nature before he die. Then,if he could no longer walk, i would going to roam around the city park while driving where he could sit and have also a wheelchair. i would be the one to guide him and also visit the famous restaurant and order his favorite food. Then, also visit a church for him to hear mass asking for miracles..
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@jellymonty (2352)
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30 Oct 09
well I guess it would be a bonus if I knew when my loved ones would be departing. It would probably hurt a lot less. I've lost so many loved ones un-expectantantly so knowing they're going would make it easier for me.
@Craicha (801)
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31 Oct 09
of course i feel sad and hurts that my love is dying but il nah let him see me sad...coz person whos dying they dnt like person especially there clsed one, do good 2 them 4 pity and sad.....i just act the same as usual as normal as we do shared everyday ... il give lots my time in him ...
@Fireheart (683)
• India
30 Oct 09
Well if there happen to anything to my girlfriend i would never forgive myself i would do anything i can to satisfy her last wishes,anyway life sometimes dont end well than with happy ending we may face bad endings it depends as how he choose in life to be,really someone i loved to face this sort of sitation is more than enough to change me.and life to be ruined within seconds.i hope i dont face this sort of commotion in my life.
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