How do you get over heartache and pain?
@ShelleyLynn26 (61)
United States
October 30, 2009 2:27pm CST
The only way to truely get over a heartache is through fasting and praying. Most people hurt people because they have been hurt. They are not happy with themselves and they do not love themselves. These people are in search for happiness and completion. They are never satisfied because they are blinded by their own emotions and feelings toward the person that hurt them. Inspite of those people that they hurt along the way. They are selfish and inconsiderate. People who hurt other people lose a who they are and act out of character. People who have been hurt will use or abuse a person physically or mentally, because they went through pain, so they others to feel their pain. These people will not get close to anyone, because they do not want to be hurt.
The only way to truely get over a heartache is spiritual healing from God. If you have been hurt, you have to talk to someone or write the things down that hurt you. Keep your writings in a safe place or shread them so no one else can read it. This will help you vent and release these things that bother you. If you can find someone to talk to that will be great, but make sure its someone that you trust and will give you good advice and not take sides. It is important for a person to be understanding and encouraging about the situation. Seek God for direction and he will guide you to that person or that person to you. Believe me there is someone out there who went through what you are going through or been through.
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@laurynashlee06 (89)
• United States
30 Oct 09
I agree with you with the healing with God as well, but I also believe that time is probably the best thing. I realized that if you let yourself move on in your life and don't let it hold you back then you'll heal faster. At first its hard but after awhile you won't be thinking about how to get through each day at a time. Soon you'll be thinking about getting through weeks and months.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
3 Nov 09
ShelleyLynn26,
Whilst I am not against what you are advocating here in your post, I thought I will just add a point here.
I feel that on top of being spiritual about it, it is also a time to reckon and accept the facts and realities. Holding on relentlessly to whatever is not workable and over is not the solution and will just antagonize us further.
We just need to learn how to forgive, walk away and let go for the better of people around us. But most importantly, for ourselves.
Have a nice day.