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@suspenseful (40192)
Canada
October 30, 2009 7:46pm CST
When my husband was still able to get around, he got a renewal card for both him and me in the mail. Since he was payng the bills, he cut mine up and told me that it would mean that I would not be responsible for any credit card bills. Wrong. We have a zero balance, but when I checked my online bank statement, my old credit card number is still on the online bank statement. This would mean that had I not kept his card at home when he wanted to put the renovations on credit card and had to use his other card that is his alone, if he had suddenly dropped dead on the spot, I would have been responsible for the payments. And if I had used that card and dropped dead on the spot, so would he. So if you have a joint credit card account, make sure that you not only destroy the extra card but inform the bank that it is now a single user credit card account.
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• United States
31 Oct 09
So true! The bank does not know that your husband destroyed the card and made a verbal change to the account arrangements. It is very important that anyone with a joint account notifies the bank of any chanegs in writing.
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• United States
2 Nov 09
Some banks do charge a penalty for paying off your balance. They can only make money off the interest so they do not want to pay off the balance. Greedy buggers. Some financial advisers recommend only paying a small amount over the minimum required. Also paying off balances does not help your credit rating.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
I also have to find out that if it will charge a penalty for those who pay off their balance each month. I found that some American banks do that. I plan to keep the card as when I have enough money I will go and buy that Macbook pro. i only have one thousand dollars to go.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
31 Oct 09
I would also have them take my card off the bank staement. and I dont have problems withthis as never had one with hubby but I do have one now and wish I didnt!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
2 Nov 09
sounds ok then
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
3 Nov 09
In some states husband and wife are responsible even if it's not joint accounts..
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
Here if you have a joint account in the bank even though one has taken his name off the bank, both of you still have the credit cards in both names. The main bill comes in the main owner's name, but your name is on it even though you have a different number. However, if you have your own bank account and your spouse has a credit card in their name, you cannot pay it from your own bank account online if the computer is in your name. For instance, supposing you are Mary Jones and you have your own computer that you had registered and you are married to a Bill Jones and you have your account at Walmart and use a Walmart Credit Card. Your husband has an account at Home Depot. Now your husband is broke, but you have a lot of money so you decide to transfer money from your bank to his Home Depot credit card. You cannot do it. The only way is that if both of you have joint accounts at Walmart and Home Depot.
• United States
31 Oct 09
Good advise. I do not have credit cards. I would rather pay up front for my purchases. Quite a while back I got into a mess and had a difficult time getting out of credit card he!!.
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• United States
31 Oct 09
That sounds wise to me - I am currently in the hell you speak of, paying off VERY slowly as I try to fight the interest rates! When I am done I will not have a credit card again. I was talked into it being told 'having no credit is as bad as having bad'. I understand why but I am not to be trusted with credit cards and I think it best if I live on cash now. Hopefully soon we will be paid off and lose the big black cloud hanging over us!! Well done getting out, good for you.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
I have credit cards and the reason I did was that when I paid for something with cash, I got this almost faded receipt and I did not know what I had bought and also I am the type of person who when they have cash, it burns a hole in my pocket. Consequently I leave most of my cash at home, and I transfer so much from my savings into my checking and do most of the payments on line so I do not need to worry. Oh and I pay before the statements come due, often a couple of days after I buy something because those online statements miss me up. They show the whole balance, not just the ones that is due.
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
2 Nov 09
This is great information, thank you for sharing. This is something that people do not think about. I am glad you thought to share. It should be help- full to some people. Have a great day.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
I did not realize it until I found that the online statement showed my old credit card number of the joint credit card we had was still on in my name since my husband had since closed his account at that bank and I had closed my account but later reopened it because I sick of the long line ups at the other bank.
@suzzy3 (8341)
4 Nov 09
All you have to do is apply for a replacement card say you cut it up my mistake.It is still valied or get the main card holder to cancel yours in writing with their signature.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
The trouble with that is that because I have a smaller pension then my husband, my credit limit will go down. This way, we still have our credit limit that it was when he retired. I did make it so that we can pay the account from either our joint bank account or mine. I do know of those who took their name off of the joint credit cards and now they are shopping at Shoppers or the main grocery stores, taking out their cash and counting in coins because they do not make enough to qualify for a credit card unless it is a secured one.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
1 Nov 09
This would apply to any credit card. If you cut up the card it simply becomes impossible to use the card in a machine or a shop, but the card itself is still valid. This means that you could still use it via the internet or telephone since only the number and relative details would be required to do this. You could also have regular bills such as mobile phone or electricity paid directly from a credit card. Not so long ago credit cards were only used by presenting the card itself, so it would then have worked perfectly to simply cut it up, although you would still have received a new one in time. Many people may still remember these days and still believe that this method will suffice. As you rightly pointed out, the only way to truly cancel a card is to arrange the cancellation with the bank itself.
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@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
31 Oct 09
that's for sure. you should have informed the bank first before you destroy the card. if you haven't if means your card is still active even though you have torn it apart. your card still can be used in online payment program.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
Did you read the discussion? My husband was the one who destroyed the card and I thought that he had already notified the bank. So stop blaming me for something my husband failed to do.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Very wise words! My credit suffered after my husband left the family because he had lots of credit cards--against my wishes, I should add. He believed in getting what he wanted as soon as he wanted it, I believe in saving for what you want and buying with cash. I had a horrible time getting his credit cards off my credit report! And my attorney specified in the divorce that I was not liable for his debts that were in his name only. It's scary how many people don't know the facts you stated. You did a good thing here, educating people. So many don't know these things.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
What upset me was that when we were getting our house renovated, we had to stay at a motel and he put the bill on the credit card. (Luckily it was not the bmo card - I made sure that I 'forgot' the wallet and left it at home) and now we have to get a new furnace and so either he will want to put it on equity or on the card again. And there is a good chance that he might not survive to next Christmas. Right now I am paying for half the groceries, but I guess I will have to pay for all of them so we can pay off that debt in time.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 09
hi suspenseful this is a good reminder for us all.joint credit card account means either of you is responsible for the other if anything happens to one of you as I understand it , so you need to destroy the extra and notify the bank you are now a single credit account user.
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• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Yeah,that is the right things to do before deciding to disregards the other credit cards one need to inform the credit company regarding the changes in your preferences as even though you already discard the card in the computer record of the bank it is still accounted for. Thus,it is only right to inform as though you think it is not already used you still have to pay the monthly charges whether you have stop using your cards. So definitely it would incur charges which you never know unless you contacted the bank or the credit company where you apply.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
We do not have a charge to pay on it. I was thinking of the time when we were using it, before my husband retired. Since then he has just used his card and I have just used my card, but this Mastercard offers airmiles and now since us seniors cannot get the airmiles on our debit cards unless we pay an extra $5.95 or $6.00 a month and I do not go to Safeway as it costs too much, the only way I can get airmiles is to use my Mastercard. That is what makes me upset.
• United States
31 Oct 09
Thats a very good point some may not have thought of, so you may have helped someone by posting up the discussion. I don't currently have any joint accounts with my husband, we divide bills up between our separate accounts, but I will bear that in mind if we ever do so.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
Before when we used that Mastercard it was just in my husband's name, and then when I tried to use it to buy somethings, the sales girl said she would not accept it, even though my husband was close by and I had a wedding ring on my hand and also proof that I was indeed married to my husband. She insisted that if I got a card in my name, it would go through. So I had to get one.