Am I attractive?

when you say dry and serious do you mean you have a dry sense of humour? keep it up if people don't get it then tough. as far as attractiveness goes then that is all to do with personality i think - and yours seems very nice.

Hmm... Okay, @hora_fugit , let me take this one step at a time. Are you attractive? If I am being honest, yes, you are an attractive young man. (IF both the picture and your avatar are actually YOU! and not someone else you have stolen that picture from. Huh... That is the picture your avatar is made from, isn't it? Interesting!) Please understand, an attractive avatar or picture can be someone else, so online, we cannot tell if that is really the person we are talking with or if they look totally different. What we must go by is how attractive is the way they write? Do they open fun/interesting/engaging topics to be discussed? Are they consistent with the information they share with people when talking about themselves and others? Does that person talk about people behind their back? (That one can be just as tricky to find out online as it is to find it out off-line. Mostly, we can't know in either situation, unless someone they have talked to tells us.) I do understand the problem you face when it comes to interjecting humor into one of the discussions on myLot. (In my case, I don't always notice the emoji's being used by others to denote that their comment is not meant to be serious, so have taken offense from it when I should have noticed the emoji's. Even when I do notice the emoji's, I might still give a serious response intending it to be funny, but it is not perceived that way.) Obviously, I cannot help you with that difficulty, YOU. (I actually don't think there is anything wrong with the way we respond to comments left by others. I think others don't try to pay attention to the nuances we put into the comments that make them funny.) Unfortunately, no, there is nothing that can be done about people who don't stop to think before they explode and spew their filthy mouths all over the page or screen when it is not warranted. It is always important to be cognizant of who the person is that you are speaking with and where they are from. It is easy to offend someone without ever meaning to do that. The best advice I can suggest is to always be polite to others. If you are unsure what kind of response is required, speak/write as formally and politely as you can. Almost every person will recognize the extreme care and reticence you display (even in your writing) when you do this and make allowances for you. Am I helping you at all, YOU, or have I muddied the waters even worse?

One picture does not deter me to comment on a post or not. It is what they write that attracts me. If I have something to say, I will comment. Otherwise i read and move on past.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder right? Titles are important in my opinion too just like the covers on a book. However a good title does not always mean that the rest has something to chew on and if that is the case time and time again, no matter how attractive the avatar or the title are, responses will start to become fewer and fewer... I think if we are oursleves without trying to be what we are not or acting the part then that is what will win over time. My favourites here are consistent and are always themselves. Some have great avatars and to my eyes are attractive... but then they might not be to others

Yes you are, I like the way you close and open your eyes. You have a nice avatar. I would post something like that too hora_fugit. And your title really catched my attention, for we are both the same. I am attractive too.

The young man in the photo is nice looking. Is that really you though? I never post personal photos of anyone I know or myself, this is a cyberworld where no one really knows who is behind that avatar, although once we spend a couple years corresponding we can come to trust someone.

Yes, you're attractive! lol. I'm very happy that you're an expressive type of person. You're such a jolly, right? lol. Yeah, I do appreciate on that. Sometimes, I'm just actually posting discussions here which are interesting enough because some of our co-mylotters would choose the best one. And we cannot force them to respond our discussion.lol... Yeah, So what I did is just responding also the best one.. That's it. Just what you did also... First time I received a responses of 100+ last week and my topic was quite simple yet interesting! I hope I could also post some discussions interesting. Happy myLotting hora_fugit!