Do you feel bad after having a quarrel with your love?

well,i also feel sad,angry,mad when we have fights but it is just part of the relationship and we also overcome it by sitting down and talking about how we can make this things right.but at the end of the day were good i just listen to him when his talking and i give him time to explain that how we solve our problems.

yes i do feel bad if me and my love in argue....makes my day lousey and in him too , thats why if theres something we need to feel to discuss or talk of, we will discuss it and fix whats problem as soon as possible...its nah healthy in the relationship always in argue even just lil things.....

I believe everyone has the feeling as do if he/she had a fight with his/her lover. I used to have a boyfriend whom I loved very much, even more than myself. He had a sweet temper. Most of the time, we got along well; but sometimes, we quarrelled. It really affected my mood. At first, I couldn't bring myself to admit it was all my fault if it really was. I kept thinking how bad and how unworthy he was. That state usually lasted for at three days, sometimes even as long as a month. After we'd been together for a long time and had experienced several fight, I began to realize that we fought simply for some trivial reasons. So I started to think it over and finally I understood the reason of our fighting. It all arose from our lacking of understanding and communicating. As lovers, we did want to be in a romantic and harmonious relation, so I think it wise to communicate with our lovers from time to time to get to know what they are thinking about. Everyone, I believe, has a tolerable heart. If we are open to them, they'll surely be open to us.

hello there jankar. it's as if my heart breaks into tiny pieces whenever i had a fight with my boyfriend. Just like you, i don't like it. It seems that my mind is thinking into something that i will not like in the end. But what is most important is to settle it before the end of the day. We just give each other time to somehow think and reflect on what is happening between the two of us. after that, we talk and try to understand each others feelings. you're right, the longer it takes to settle it, the longer the two of you suffer from heartache.

Hello there comrade ! Jankar as you know that i always find you really lucky to have your true love . For me , im always in this casual love thing and these sorts i sometimes have to create a fight deliberately for flipping my side of the coin up . Yeah its like a game in casual relations here , i have playing it though . So there you have my answer , as it is done with intentions , i dont find it hurting really . I feel good for your love though , i pray it lasts for you for your lifetime mate ! Cheerz

Everytime we made a fight then he fixed it up. I felt good, because that only means that he loves me. Fighting between a related person is normal. Mostly if you love each other.

hello jankar! everytime my husband and i had a quarrel i always felt bad aferwards. there's a lot of thoughts that lingering on my mind. i felt bad because why we're having such thing. sometimes i'm afraid that because of that the love we have with each other will vanished and hate will be found in our heart. so as much as possible, we do things in a right way.we don't do things that will start a fight. happy mylotting!

I feel uncomfortable when i have a quarrel with my love..But ,I know Quarrel is part of this relationship..We have to face it and find the reason,and solve it. We should not keep that situation for long time...We should learn to forgive each other, no matter who make mistake..Only donging like this, our relathionshio could last forever, or it may be over quickly...

Yes it is very bad feelings after a quarrel with my love, sometimes it is out of hands for both of us but many a times after some time of silence we do come back to each other because we realize this was wrong and we should not have done this\

If you feel nothing at all after quarrel with your love, then your probably doesn't love him or her at all. I always feel extremely awful after quarrel with him, usually not because of the matter we quarrel I am sad of. I am scare that due to this quarrel, we make an irreparable wound to our relationship.I cannot stop my tears all night thinking about this...

Yes,i indeed feel uncomfortable when i quarrel with my girlfriend.sometimes,she was wrong,but most of the time i was wrong.Every time we quarrel,i try to ease the things like you,but she do not listen to me.this make me feel bad.we have the same experience!

I enjoy it personally. It give me a chance to vent my built up frustration. But as much as i like it its true, I try to end it as soon as possible so she doesn't get too angry