its not easy to be me...

Hey sexy!! lol =D Appearance tend to be deceiving.. hehe ^_^ ANd many will always believe in what they see, but will not think about the process which one has gone thru to achieve, what they seen.. hehe ^_^ PLus, everybody has got different views and opinions to leading good life or whatsoever.. And, human nature, everybody likes to compare themselves, with majority wanting to boast, ot making themselves sound pathetic when they are really not.. haha

haha...true, people tend to look at the result only & not with the process... and they just keep on concentrating on their weaknesses and looking on others strengths...and compare... its kinda contradicting, hehe coz i said in my other discussion that people just saw/remember the bad things but here, im saying that they are looking on the good things in other people's life...haha and sometimes becomes envious... no, i don't like comparing myself to others, coz if we compare our self to others, its either we become vain or bitter for always there will be greater & lesser person than ourselves...hehe

sexy? where? haha...coz i think some things just really appear to be nice to others but what they don't know is what's inside...huh! i mean, they just see the good things that we are having but what they didn't know is how we achieve such good thing & what are the responsibilities it brings...i don't know. haha but for us, its not easy being us coz we know how it is to be us! haha although there are some ways we can do to make life easy for us...sometimes. nah, i feel like its non sense...hehe

I just realize now that most of my discussions are from song lyrics...haha Maybe we are thinking like having the life of others coz what we are just seeing in their life is the good part and that we just didn't appreciate the good things in our own life, and hat we just seeing is just the difficult part of being us... Anyway, after few years, i think I can still say that it's still not easy to be me! haha But I do love being me and I am glad that people around me also like me for being me...hehe

I might like listening to song and like the lyrics but I can't really sing! haha i am always out of tune! That's why sometimes its also good to be expose on some places where life is really terrible, so that we learn to appreciate things that e have... yes...

I bet you really love songs, my dear! I hope to hear you sing someday! Very true! We wish to have life of how good things are happening to others. we don't know how they reached where they are... And all we see is the sufferings we are facing ourselves in our daily lives... As they say, we have to suffer first before we gain life we desired... it's really good to be yourself and see people who will still be there are accept who you really are...

Yes, we all have different stories and our lives and many do not know about our inner stories and struggle and vice versa.

hello deepak! that's really true... we just tend to see the things that appears to be good in other people's life, thus sometimes brought us to jealousy or even envious... but what we fail to see is the other side of their life...the struggles that they've going through to be themselves... i guess, all of us are really a unique individual with our own strength & weaknesses... happy sunday friend!

true...and its only us who knows our self better...

hi tontunan! yeah, coz other people just see the comfort that we have, the beautiful things that we got...but they fail to see that we are also like them, having those difficulties in one way or another...and they don't know the pressure of being our self... on my part, when i feel tired, haha i wish i could also be like the others...huh! but you know, even if its not easy to be me, i still like my life the way it is...as a whole & well, contented with what i got... thanks for sharing...

For me, it's not hard to be yourself. Just do what you have to do and just ignoring what people say to you(negative). and if you do that, Trust me you'll be more enjoying your life.....:)

hello sonuherenz! haha, i guess nothing beats our childhood days when it comes to comfort & living life easily, coz during those days, we don't have as much responsibility as today... and its true, we can't escape the fact, the reality of life that we have to live... guess at one point of our life, we can still say that our its easy to be us but of course there area also times that we think that its not easy to be us...specially when we are having some problems...

yeah & well, God is always there to help & guide us... and i think everything that's happening to us have its reasons and i think, we can handle our problems, just need to have courage to face it...

Hi Cyera.. yes...when ever i get into such troubles i feel that way.....but cant help it..only can wish everything will get fine... Take Care

hi sandy... i' m sorry to hear about your condition, coz i know how difficult it was for you... but i admire you that you were still able to control some emotions when you are with your friends & your son's friends... so are you still visiting your doctor? maybe he can give you other kind of medicine to help you reduce those mood swings? i can say that its not really easy to be you... but i hope that you will be always okay... hmmm, is there any cure for bi-polar? or its something that's always there? i guess support & understanding from your family will do a lot... thanks for sharing...

oh i see...thanks for giving me such info...actually i don't know much about bi polar...all i know is that its a medical condition... but, is depression just come into you even without any reason? so, you need a lifetime medication? i also know one of my husband's colleague, he's maintaining some medications like you due to his disorder, but i think his is not bi polar, it has something to do with nervous breakdown...like that & he also needs check ups with the psychiatrist every now & then & he should always be free from stress coz if so, possibilities are, his disorder will attack again...& they say that its a lifetime medication for him...huh! well, its good that there are some support groups for people who have disorders, it will be a great help but still, i guess family will do a lot & support should come from them first... so sandy, i wish you all the best & i hope that you will always be okay... God bless... and hope to see more of you here...

Hi, Usually I visit my psychiatrist every 3 months to make sure I'm not experiencing any side effects to medications or changes in such things as concentration, appetite and so on. During medication changes (which occur about every 3 years) I see my doctor more frequently...about every 6 weeks. Unfortuneately, there is no cure for Bi-Polar, it is a life long condition. Doctor's and researchers know that it is hereditary but don't know any other specific causes for changes in the brain that cause Bi-Polar. The condition is often misdiagnosed because patients only seek a doctor's help during phases of depression. When the disease first manifests, the mood swings can be years apart and so the patients are treated for the depression only. I myself wasn't diagnosed correctly for 28 years. The anti-depressants would work for awhile but then I would begin to feel depressed again. In addition to the support of family and friends, there are several support groups available both off and on-line. I haven't tried one of those as of yet. I am suppose to see a psychotherapist a minimum of once a month...I've not had much luck with therapy because I can pretty much figure out what they are going to say before I even say anything myself. A lesson in futility if you will. I want to thank you so much for your sentiment. Your reply was very sincere and greatly appreciated. Don't worry, I'll keep on keeping on.\ Sincerely, Sandy3726

hello cutepenguin! haha, some people thinks that we have a better life than they are that's why they wish to have the same life like ours...but what they didn't know is the struggles that we've been through before we reach our status for now... well, good that you have your family & friends with you and also so nice of you to do things for them as well... that's why you are blessed...

well, that's always the case...huh! and we are the only one who really knew ourselves and knows the joys and difficulties of being us...

hello there, well i guess most of us do really feel that way at one time or another in our lives...huh! anyway, thanks for sharing...

hello jaiho my friend! you lnow, i can relate on what you are saying...coz i remember when i was still with my parents, our neighbors always think that we have lots of money & having a very nice comfortable life...but they are just judging us base on the clothes we're wearing! huh! just like you, they will borrow money from us then if we said that we don't have, they will take it against us....huh! what they didn't know is that even us is having some financial problems...haha and we also have tons of problems inside the house, its just that we are not showing it... yes, we are not superwoman or even darna! haha they must understand that we are also human like them with weaknesses & facing same problems like them...

yes, you're right...we should never dwell in self pity coz there's still a lot out there who have worst life than we are...we should just need to appreciate the things that we have and be thankful for them... thanks!

yeah, i think so...maybe what's hapening to our life are those things that really are meant for us...huh! and we are the only one who can handle it...

hi mrsravoon! great to hear that...that's good for you that being you is easy... yeah, that's the problem to some, taking things for granted...

thanks for the info that you provided for us...

hi daisy... hehe, sometimes people makes comment without even thinking...huh! yes its true, money doesn't bring permanent happiness... it does bring happiness but just for a short period of time...

hello shibham! good to see you here, how are you? well, most of the people will find it really nice if you have a stable job...coz it also means security. hmmm, may i ask? what makes you say no? aren't you satisfied with the life you have now? hmmm i know, maybe because there's still something missing... a wife? have a nice day!

well, we can always try enjoying our own life as well... coz you never know, some people also see your life as a better one...

hello danitykane! haha..i guess that's really how life is, we wanted to have things that we don't have & sometimes think that what's good for others are also good for us... which i guess is not... coz all of us have our differences... well its good that you have learn now how to live your life with less expectation & just be happy & contented with what you have... and yes, by learning those things, our life will be easier & happier... i think the best for us is to know how to appreciate the things that we have... thanks!

hello anning! so how are you now? i'm glad to hear that with your efforts you were able to succeed in your life...i hope that continue being well & happy with your own life... i agree that one must enjoy owns life no matter how difficult life may appear, there's still so many good things about it...just look on the brighter side...