fight the love BACK or just LET GO
By muning
@muning (52)
Philippines
October 31, 2009 10:21am CST
I've been with a relationship for 9 months with a very coll guy. We both enjoying each company and respect each interest. At first, my parents like him but after a month they changed their mind. My boyfriend was disappointed. i fought for him but then my boyfriend was not that brave to fight for our love. he broke up with me since he don't want me to mess up with my family.
Is that reasonable to ed the relation like that?
Should i just fight the love back or just accept the fact
that it's over between us?
3 responses
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Welcome to the community
You are now a mylot member. I know you have asked me before about this site, and finally you can call yourself a mylotter
. Anyway, so much for the welcome, i'm so sorry to hear about your story. You know, i will be true to you, if your boyfriend is brave enough, he will or he should not break up with you, he should do something else that will make your family accept him or learn to like him. Another thing is, if he really loves you, he should not think of your family because he will not marry your mom or your siblings, but you. I think in this kind of situation, it is not advisable for you to fight for the love. There are more better guys out there. I hope my advice will help you think.@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Yes, let go is the right thing to do. Why you are going to be martyr in a person whom you know can't fight for you in the later part.At first, it is really hard to accept, but we should learn how to move on.we should learn to accept the reality. God has given us the right person who will love us till the end, we just have to wait for it.
@muning (52)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
But still, i love the guy. With all my heart. I cant imagine my life without him right now, but then hes not that strong to be my man. I'm still holding on unto this day which i cant control my feelings. i know that telling me to let go is easy but doing it is hard. Imagine you give your best in that person.
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@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
fight back if its worth it. if you believe that person is meant for you than pray and go after her or him but if its not then just let go if you feel its not going anywhere. perhaps the someone for you is still out there waiting to be sweep of her feet.
