What if you are misunderstood by your frends or your parents?

@andy555 (216)
China
October 31, 2009 11:14pm CST
Sometimes, we are often misunderstood by our friends or parents, though there is something wrong with us but it is beyong our control. For example, you had planed to meet your friend at 8 o'clock, but because of heavy trafic, you are late and meanwhile you can not get in touch with him, your friend has left when you arrive. And he doesn't want to believe you any longer. In this case, what do you do?
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5 responses
@rhan04 (307)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
I am often misunderstood too. However, in the long run, my friends learn to accept me and didn't demand too much from me anymore. Your friends should really try to understand you no matter what is wrong with you. Nobody is perfect. There are times that we can't avoid making mistakes and they should try to get over it.
@andy555 (216)
• China
1 Nov 09
Maybe after a long time i can make sure who is really my good friend.
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
i am misunderstood by alot of my friends in church because i got engage so suddenly and they dont know the person so well. im not hanging with them for now because they have their own world and im not a part of it. just a vibe im getting though 10% of them are still talking to me.
@andy555 (216)
• China
1 Nov 09
we are in the same boat!
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
1 Nov 09
i think first would say sorry to him.second ,i would explain to him the reason.the third ,i would promise i would n't do the same thing.the fourth, i would really try to keep my promise not to late. i could start early next time.
@andy555 (216)
• China
1 Nov 09
What if he doens't listen to any explanation?
@ashbal (40)
• India
1 Nov 09
nw am trapped in a really tuf situation .. jus a sorry wont convince my friends .. .but wen we express our regrets n the reasons behind that in a real sensible way y wont our frends accept tat. friends are the ones who knows us the best than any other in the world n they r f the same wavelength f mind as we r in . . so in my point view convincing my frend in quite tuf but stil i wont say its far from realism .n it r duty to make clear to some1 who had waited for us amidst his/her commitments. frends r the ones who cares n understands us most !
@kathcake (70)
1 Nov 09
If I was going to be late I'd text them and let them know i wouldn't just leave them hanging so I don't think this would happen! If you don't have a mobile well you're very out of date lol! but personally i think the friend probably had a right to be pissed off if youre still not there after a little while. They should wait at least 20 mins-to half hour before going home though!