How to approach a girl whome I like most?

India
November 1, 2009 1:41am CST
Hi All, Till I saw her, I didn't thought of having a girl friend. I was very much contented in living alone. But my mind changed after seeing her and I like her much and I think I should not miss her in my life anymore. But we aren't friends but She knows that I am interested in her, that she got know from my starings at her. Unfortunately, I didnt had any common friend or a situation to interact with her naturally. If I go and talk now she will be knowing that I am flirting and she might ignore me as well. Once I attempted pinging her thru communicator But she ignored it. What should be the next attempt? can you anyone help me? I am really serious about her.
3 responses
sauravpokhriyal
@sauravpokhriyal (10)
• India
1 Nov 09
If you like a girl never reveal your feelings at once be patience.First,try to be his friend and her group memebers friend.Be humorous its the one important thing that every girl like.Always show interest in her talks and try to appreciate her as much as possible.Never show too much interest in her.Now check whether she likes you or not by talking to other girls and show more interest on them than her.If she feels jealous it means she likes you too.And this is the appropriate time to reveal your feelings.
solared
@solared (1207)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Tell her how you feel, all she can do is say no, if you keep doing things the way you are she will think you are creepy and never give you a chance.
bwanna
@bwanna (282)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Wow, talk about a bad first impression! Don't worry, though, you can repair things if you re-do everything perfectly, and if this girl is willing to give you another chance. First of all, if you know that she knows that you like her, then just go up and tell her that you're sorry that the two of you got off on the wrong foot, and that you'd like to start over. Then, judging on her reaction, either go on and start minorly flirting or just leave! If she thinks you're a creep, then it's better to leave it as it is and find another girl than to mess around and risk having the police after you. But if she's open-minded, don't over flirt, and wait until you get to know her a little better (2-3 encounters) until you casually ask her to go out. If this happens, make sure the date you take her on involves other people, and that it's in a public area. Above all, don't stare at her as much as you did the other time, or else she'll for sure think that you're some crazy man out to kidnap a woman. Follow my advise and find funny jokes on the net, and she might just fall for you! I hope that you have good luck with her, and comment back if you do!