i d0nt kn0w if he l0ves me still..
By parshince
@parshince (22)
Philippines
November 1, 2009 4:13am CST
i get jealous easily..is it n0rmal in a guy that he would lo0k into an0ther girl..especially ig the girl attracts that much..sexy, beautiful, and nice..
would i be jealous if he is watching another girl even were walking t0gether??
i get hurt when he did that way..and i react overly..h0w can i get this feeling out of me?
would i believe if he tells me..that he really l0ves me? and im the only one for him?
i d0nt kn0w why i reacted overly..its just that maybe..i d0nt him t0 lose in me..i love him dearly..and i can sacrifise..even if s0metimes he ran away..and 1 day after he'll come back..he d0 hurt me to..s0metimes when i do over react..he would slap me..huhuhuhu:( and it hurts me..i w0uld always thought that he d0nt l0ve me anymore..
how can i handle this kind of situation? when i dont want to be far from him..all i want is just he would be sweet in me..i really l0ve to treat like a princess..
everything that is being sooooooo0000000oooo romantic..
he would comb my hair..arrange my hair when its not in the proper place..
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15 responses
@BelieveFast (15)
• United States
2 Nov 09
You have a right as a female to be jelous. Its how far you take that jelousy. However, if he is acting like that constantly there could be future trust issues. There is always someone better out there, and you can find them.
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@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
looking to other girls while walking together... I think that is not a fair thing to do at all... At least show some respect to your girlfriend. I would get upset too.
Parshince how young are you? I think you should not let your emotions drive you crazy. You must give yourself a space to breath in too. Never focus all your attention to him. You are young and you will be meeting lots of men still.
It is good to be treated nice like like a princess as you said, but that is not what REAL life is. Sadlly but we need to accept that life not always happy...
@charmz1005 (679)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
tsk. I think the part where you said that he slapped you is not right. If you have a boyfriend like that might as well break up with him, there are a lot of guys there that wouldn't slap you and wouldn't look to another girl when he's with girlfriend. Jealousy is always a normal thing, I also get jealous but remain calm and tell her what's wrong with me if she notices it. Trust is always important, understanding each other is needed, and expressing what you feel is a good way for a healthier relationship.
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@KMaroon (266)
• India
1 Nov 09
Hi Parshince
I think a guy looking at other girl is normal, you need not take it seriously, because that is not the thing you have to think about. First if you feel he too is serious with your love just continue to love him don't over react and tell him not to slap and discuss with him your problem, he may understand you. So, don't worry. Have a nice day.
@solared (1207)
• United States
1 Nov 09
You are a pretty girl, it's possible yes that he dosen't have the same feelings anymore, but look your 18 and i assume he is young too, it's not unusual for men that age to be that way, for one they don't know what a good woman is, and some men never know.
Anyways it's his loss if he dosen't see how much you care for him, because more than likely if he leaves for another girl she will treat him badly and he will regret it later.
@babyfuzz (1078)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
I think girl, you're so dreamy and unrealistic. Guys are like that. They tend to look at other girls because they're made like that. I mean, they are attracted physically at first. Well, aren't girls like that as well? If you see a cute guy, don't you want to look at him too?
Some guys are sweet. Some aren't. I think you have to focus on the good side of this guy if you want to stick with him.
As for the slapping, I don't tolerate that. My boyfriend hasn't slap or kicked or anything violent to me. If he does, then I will definitely leave him. ^^
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
1 Nov 09
hi
you want to be loved, to be cared, to be respected and to be trusted by your guy... but do you give him all this in return..? you get irritated when he looks at someone eles.. believe me, even you look at other guys, it is a human tendency. even your jealousy is a normal human tendency.
to let the relationship keep moving, try to understand eachother, trust eachother. still if you feel that he is not yours and wants to go then let him go, if he comes back he is yours and if doesn't then he was never yours.
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
1 Nov 09
hi
you want to be loved, to be cared, to be respected and to be trusted by your guy... but do you give him all this in return..? you get irritated when he looks at someone eles.. believe me, even you look at other guys, it is a human tendency. even your jealousy is a normal human tendency.
to let the relationship keep moving, try to understand eachother, trust eachother. still if you feel that he is not yours and wants to go then let him go, if he comes back he is yours and if doesn't then he was never yours.
@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
7 Nov 09
Some people says a boy is easily distracted. Girls are not so much affected by another girl though they may be very sensitive if their boyfriend as much as glanced at another lady. Some will defend their action saying they appreciate beauty. Anyway, it takes a lot of understanding between couples to look the other way to save a relationship! Disagree with me?
@Craicha (801)
•
1 Nov 09
yes its natural to get jealous but don't over react....be calm..its natural to admire to others it doesnt mean bad at all...its just the same you and your BF go out and it happen you saw a good looking and handsome guy don't tell me you'l nah look at him..yes you will do coz you admire in his look....if your BF slap you coz you made him too...your BF just feedup maybe with your big mouth accusing him ..girl, if you love your BF change your ways...in your ways you just drove him away.....guys like sweet pretty girl be one of it....be sweet and pretty girl nah a nagger.....!!!
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@protogenix (60)
• Malaysia
1 Nov 09
its ok to be jealous..my ex-gf also be like this when i just watching other girl..she might pinch me..haha..but to react overly maybe cant be accepted by some man..if me, i also cant accepted it..trust your lover..just watching isnt an criminal..he dont mean to leave you for other girl or what ever..he just watching..for me, i like to watch other woman because i aattracted the way that the woman dress up..its not i mean that my girl dont know how to fashion herself, but just attracted for awhile..
dont react overly..he loves you...
@Staraven (160)
• United States
4 Nov 09
If he makes a habit of slapping you, you really need time apart from him. Like...*serious* time apart. Or talk it out.
That's the biggest deal here, that I'm seeing.
Because nobody should stay in a relationship like that.
If you feel jealous about him looking at other people, tell him how it makes you feel. Ask him if he'd like it if you did the same. He should understand. I know I'd feel jealous too, if I had a boyfriend and he was looking at other girls while he was by my side.
@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
1 Nov 09
Don't At All Worry Even A Bit .. He Very Well Will Understand Why You Did Feel That Way .. If He Really Loves You He Will Say He Won't Repeat What He Has Done .. Or He May Give You The Reason For Doing So .. If You Think The Answer Is Satisfactory, Be With Him .. Or Else There's No Shortage For Boys For You Or Girls For Him .. Don't Think I Am Hurting Any Body's Feeling I Just Made My Views Known .. Thank You ..
