what would you do if you find out your bf/husband is cheating on you?
By feevjune1
@feevjune1 (42)
Philippines
5 responses
@scoutsniper85 (432)
•
19 Nov 09
It depends on how deep the cheating is...But I do believe in second chance.
If you really love the person, why not let him/her in agAin?
@mommyjewel (39)
• United States
3 Nov 09
That would earn my husband a fast track to divorce court. There is no reason for him to be out with another girl. I take my marriage vows very seriously and if he was cheating then in my opinion he was the one to break those vows and I could never trust him again.
Some people can work things out after one of their significant others have cheated and I have heard that for some people the relationship can be better and stronger than ever after something like this but for me that would never be the case.
@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I would confront him and see what he has to say for himself...and I would definitely no longer be with him, because there is no reason to be with someone who isn't faithful to you...
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
1 Nov 09
First of all I would like to start by saying that i have NO tolerance for cheating partners. If you are in love with someone (TRULY IN LOVE) the thought of cheating would NEVER enter your mind. I believe that if you are having thoughts of cheating, it is time to end the relationship. Having said that if I were to find out that my husband was cheating on me, I would want a divorce. Being in a relationship with someone is IMPOSSIBLE without trust, and how can you trust someone if they can't even be faithful? I think that the person cheating is a coward, creep and uncaring. I think that the best thing to do is cut your losses while you are ahead. Now please don't think that I am being callous because that is not my intention, I am just telling you what I would do. I have been with my husband for over 12 years now and we just passed our 5 year wedding anniversary and I am telling you that if I ever found out that he was cheating on me it would be over. I am not sure if this is something that has happened to you or a friend of yours but I would like to say that the guy doing the cheating is a PIG and not worth the dirt he walks on. I hope that things work out for you and please remember that your partner does not determine your worth. You are a special person and you deserve to be treated with love, respect and honesty. I hope that helps and good luck to you. Happy mylotting.
