What do you and your mate argue the most about?

My boyfriend always complains that I don't clean 24/7. Recently I lost my job and have been very depressed and haven't felt like doing anything but sleeping away my life. I keep losing weight and not eating. Its hard and my boyfriend doesn't understand that. He comes home from work and starts complaining about everything. I'm grateful that I have him to take care of me I just wish he would stop nagging me 24/7 about everything he wants me to do!

Money, cleaning and chores...none of this seem to be a problem for us. Most of the time, we have funny argue about my family stuff...I always think I shouldn't ask him to help on my family stuff. Do you all have the same problem too?

hi valentinesdiner mostly we argued about my husband's seeming disability to write down his withdrawals from our co owned bank account causing a number of overdrafts with the subsequent charges. this could get pretty noisy as he kept saying well I wrote it down on a piece of paper, just forgot to put it in the bank book. and I " that doesn't help much,does it?" So we finally decided I would withdraw and hand him the money as I did kept close track of all withdrawals and deposits. other than that we did not argue much.

We argue so much... but we always seem to argue about money, bills, chores and our daughter. we are actually seperated at this moment for the same readon that we argue so much we decided to give eachother a break.but i can't find a job so we argue about it. i am trying and he doesnt understand that. we are in debt and we are trying to make things better.