When do you get angry?

@ample03 (403)
India
November 2, 2009 12:56am CST
There are so many things happen everyday that irk. Sometimes its rudeness or disregard, sometimes its hurting or neglecting children. Even ignorance also can make one person angry. I also get angry but try to keep myself cool at that moment though that is not easy most of the times Do you get angry often? Please share with us why?
4 responses
• United States
2 Nov 09
While I like Cloud's reasoning, I'm not sure I agree that anger is a senseless emotion. I agree that, used in the wrong manner, it can do nothing but more harm. However, it can be controlled, and what about the circumstances that just kinda push you pass the calm point? If I found someone beating up or pushing around my little brother(s), it would definitely get me flared up inside, but that doesn't mean I would charge in with fists flailing. If something makes you angry, it's usually because you are passionate about that ordeal. In this way, I do agree with Cloud that something bad can be turned around in a positive manner. Aiming for something with controlled emotion and a fiery passion can yield incredibly beautiful results, even from the worst situations. :)
• Australia
2 Nov 09
What is the purpose of getting angry? What does anger achieve? How does anger make you feel? Anger is a senseless emotion. It gets you tied up in knots. It makes the other person angry and it achieves nothing. There are things I dislike. I do not like to hear adults, especially parents, belittling children. I do not like to hear foul language or swearing. I do not like rudeness or lies. While I dislike these things, if I get angry, I can do nothing about them. If I remain calm and gentle, I can say something that might have an effect.
@uiskana (136)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Anyway i get angry if someone talking bad to my parents even my little sis. Maybe also when someone trying to scam me.
• United States
2 Nov 09
Ah, you hit the nail on the head, Ample! There really aren't many mundane grievances that get to me, but I absolutely cannot stand the mistreatment of others. I grew up in a beautiful family, and before my dad passed away, the greatest thing he ever taught me (through his words and actions) was to always, always, ALWAYS treat others with respect, dignity, and love. He never wanted for himself, and it irked him when others made a fuss over him and that's the way I've become. I apologize for seeming so self-centered about the topic. :/ But yes, hurting others, whether it be emotionally, physically, or any other way, gets my blood boiling. It's just something about betrayal of trust. When someone puts their own heart and trust in you, and you turn around and spit in their face (abuse, lying, etc.), it's a wrong I cannot stand. I'm sincerely sorry for sounding so pessimistic. I hope you understand. And I hope I was able to help. God bless, Ample! :)