Do you have a system of exchanging gifts?

Malaysia
November 2, 2009 1:42am CST
I would love to share the systems that we have practiced when we exchanged gifts at the office. So far there were two different ways, but the concept was quite similar. One ~ Writing down each of the employee's name on a piece of paper and whoever draws out the name will buy a gift for the person, but they have to keep it secret before the day of the exchange gifts. Two ~ Everyone will buy a gift and pass it to the person-in-charge. All the gifts will then be numbered according to the number of people who are participating. Let's say there are 10 people, then the gifts will be numbered from 1 to 10. So, during the exchange gifts session, each person will draw out a number and the gift he or she will receive will be according to the number drawn. Some people prefer to know who the recipients of the gifts are, and others are comfortable just to give the gifts on random basis, but to me I prefer the former. What about you? Which one do you prefer and why?? Or do you have any other interesting system of exchanging gifts that you would like to share??? Please do. Thanks in advance!!
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@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
2 Nov 09
hi corry friend^^;; my family doesn't celebrate Christmas but i join my friends, colleagues, or even classmates when i was in school. i like the first idea that we draw each others name though keeping it secret is kinda tough because some may ask someone close to that person what he/she likes so they can guess who had their names hahaha.. we also set the amount limit or range of our gifts so that everyone can receive fair gift cost or better if it's higher in my 4 best friends case whom i celebrate Christmas with, we just buy 3 gifts, one for each and so we can receive 3 gifts too. there is no price limit but we know how and what each other wants. when i was in school, we did some theme cheap exchange gifts for 10 days before the real exchange gift day. for example in day1, give something that is cute(maybe cellphone accessories with cute designs) and day2, give something that is sweet(like candies, chocolates,etc) and so on until day 10. the price is less than $1. exchange gift is pretty fun though i haven't experienced the second concept you've mentioned but i heard it happened in my younger sister's class(she's just 10 years old) hhmmm seems you are ready for the upcoming holiday
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• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Hi, Lucky! You are very right! At my other past working place, the guy who got my name has actually asked another colleague about what I liked and one day he just asked me directly! So, it wasn't a secret anymore. We also set a certain amount, for example the gift must not be less than $5, but it would be according to the staff level. The amount would be double for those who were in managerial level so that it would be fair and square. Hey, I find that it's kind of interesting and fun exchanging gifts for 10 days. So, everyday you will be waiting and excited for what you will get. We did the second concept before, but not everyone would use common sense that the gift must be something that both man and woman can use. Like I mentioned in one of my previous responses, one guy received a girly bag hehehehe... I guess some people do prefer the second concept because they just don't want to get too personal. Lucky, I have my ideas what to do and buy in my head right now, but I actually haven't shop anything yet!
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
I have been missing some notifications as well... but why you can receive others and not mine... The tote bag was funny, he was really sporting. He was doing a catwalk with the bag, but I don't know, maybe he gave it to his mom. I was close to him once, but never asked about it though. Ah yes, the themed gift is just for fun, but creative! So, with only $1 per day, until the 10th day, you have collected so many cute stuffs, not to mention those 'notty' items.
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
2 Nov 09
well yeah the second concept is easier to decide on what item to give since you don't have to know exactly what one person likes but everybody may like...just need a little common sense. i just wonder what did the guy do with that tote bag hahaha hhmmm..the themed gift thingy is really just for fun so no need to be expensive...some may come up even to give something that is sexy/naughty...so think what to give that cost less than a buck **mylot really doesn't like notifying me with your commentss grrr.. while i can receive others
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Dear Corrycrystal, Your topic of discussion really put me in holiday mood. I feel it is Christmas soon I too prefer the former method because I prefer to buy something that is more practical and have 'personal touch'. Then, it will be more meaningful, and it won't be wasted. I also prefer to receive something that is appropriate and suits me. Exchange gifts is fun, how I wish I am workinf in your company and be one of your colleague!
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
Dear Corrycrystal, Thanks for your prompt reply. Truly appreciate it! Yes, wish list is a great idea. Perhaps I would ask my son to get his wish list so that he get a better chance at it I remembered 'wish list' on Christmas tree is such a blessings to me. Many years ago, I was not working. Curve & Mix FM has a joint promotion where a huge Christmas tree was placed at their lobby / main area. So, I took a wish list card and wish for 'a pair of high heels', and one morning Mix-Fm called me up and said my wish came true. I was blessed with a 'Primavera' RM300 cash voucher. I got myself 3 pairs of shoes and a handbag. Praise the Lord!
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
OMG! That was awesome, Iriene! The coolest Christmas gift and it's really like a dream came true! Did it ever cross your mind that you would receive such a nice surprise like that?? I wish something like that would happen to me.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
with my hubbys family (there are 20 of us) we play a dice game. we all buy gifts from the dollar store or that sort of thing and wrap them and they all go into a big pile in the centre. we all sit around them and have several pairs of dice going around. the timer is set. if you get doubles, you can pick a prize out of the middle, half way through when all the prizes are gone, we can open them, then we carry on and roll the dice again. if doubles happen, you can steal. this is done til the timer goes off and you can keep what you have.
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• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
Oh, sounds like an interesting and quite a fun game! I think this is a great idea where we can buy some small items and reasonable stuffs. Do you all buy one gift for one person or you can buy as many as you want just to make the game interesting? I love this idea and maybe I can organize something like this as one of the activities and modify it with some simple rules. Thanks, Cher!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
2 Nov 09
I think I prefer the first one because I prefer knowing who I am going to buy for. That is the way my husband family exchanges gifts because the family is very large. We used to do something similar at work except it had to be a secret, we used to call it Christmas Cringle and by the look of some of the presents, it’s just as well it was all secret because some of the gifts were quite offensive sometimes! At home I ask everyone to make a Christmas list and go from there...
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@gmatthews (154)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I prefer to know who I am buying the gift for, because you can make it more personal that way. If you are just buying a gift and not knowing who is going to get it...you end up buying a generic gift, especially if you have men and woman in your office. If I know who I am buying for then I can get them something that they like. I would rather get no gift at all then get a oresent that I do not like or will never use.
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• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
I agree with you, GMatthews. It will be much better to know who we will be going to buy the gifts for then to simply get something that we have know idea whether the person who's going to receive it will like it or not. However, last year my ex-colleagues from the sister company was complaining to me that some of the girls in her office just wanted to draw out numbers. I think they wanted to avoid getting the name of their boss who they disliked so much. Well, if I receive a present I don't like at all, I think it's better if I give it to somebody else who I think might like it, but so far, I used and kept all the gifts I've received before.