What do you do if your boyfriend has a habit u cant just stand?
By lee_kim
@lee_kim (18)
Vietnam
4 responses
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
3 Nov 09
I think everyone has something that irritates there significant other.. My husband snores so badly.. We argue over it alot because it keeps me up at night.. But sometimes I sleep on the couch or sometimes he sleeps on the couch.. But I know I have some habits that bother him too.. But I would rather deal with his habits with him an no one else... I guess thats when you know its true love
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
I just talk to my boyfriend and tell him the things that i don't like about his habits, I will tell it to him in a soft and not angry manner so he won't be getting mad at me instead. Then if he won't change, then try to accept of what he is.
@miraclefreebies (3043)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Well I have a husband, and yes there are habits that both of us have that we can't stand. At first I thought I was going to go crazy over these habits because it irritated me so much.
I don't know what habit your boyfriend has or what type of person he is, but if he's the type of person that will consider your feelings, then maybe you should explain to him how much this thing bothers you, and maybe he would try to stop or slack down.
My husband had the worst habit of leaving his cup under the bed with tea or soda in it, then the baby would find it and spill it. But he stopped doing that, but he's still doing other things I prefer him not to do, but I've learned to accept a lot of things because I love him.
I don't want us to spend the rest of our lives just focusing on the things that irritates us. I look more towards the good things because it saves a lot of headaches.
I guess it depends on what the problem is. Some habits and problems are bigger and more serious than others, and the one I just mentioned is pretty small.
@Savedeath (255)
• China
2 Nov 09
ha,first i'm a boy so i will stand on the boy-side to express my opinons.and i will regard you as my girl friend.so it will be like "ha,baby,don't let me see your like of sorrow,because you are so beautiful and i can't stand you being so unhappy" ok,um...just a kidding
accturally,that will depend on your boyfriend,because every boy has their own character,so it's hard for me to make a general answer.anyways,i wish you can be happy
