I need advice ..
By jhannon
@jhannon (1406)
United States
August 29, 2006 12:21pm CST
My friend recently stoped talking to me.she wont return emails or phonecalls..What can i do..I miss her company alot..Shes pregnant right now and on bedrest ..She was there for me when i was very pregnant now i cant be there for her and it bugs me..She wont even tellme why shes mad.Do you think my friednhsip is ruined.?I racked my brain adn i cant think of why she is mad at me....How can i repair this fridnship has anyone evr been in my situation..
6 responses
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Give it a rest. May be a week or so. And go see her. Take her something that she really loves. Pretend that you completely forgot she was upset with you. Talk to her very nicely. Show her that you care and you have not changed. Talk about the baby and the preparations. Hospitals, other babies, what ever. After a hour or so, simply ask her why she was upset sometime back and how you felt during this time. I hope you'll succeed. Wish you luck
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
29 Aug 06
Write her a letter and ask her what you did wrong. Also tell her what you said above about how she was there for you and you want to be there for her. Maybe also ask someone else that you both know if she ever told them what was wrong
@carlicia (56)
• United States
29 Aug 06
iv so been n that situation, the reason y my friend was mad at me was a complete misunderstanding. & if u can honestly say you cant imagine y shes mad at u, then u need 2 take advantage of her being on bedrest(cuz she cant go anywhere) & make her sit down & tell her just wat u said above. uv done ur best tryin 2 get n touch with her without getting any response so try 2 work up the nerve 2 go meet her face 2 face. i wish ida done this wen i was n this situation a couple years ago but i waited until our friendship was almost unfixable, but i finaly went over 2 hav a discussion with her & as i said b4 it was all a misunderstanding, something completely stupid & childish, a bad reason 2 lose my bestfriend. but it all worked out. i realy hope it all works out for you too. this 2 shall pass.
@kalpsadit (624)
• Singapore
13 Oct 06
I have undergone something similar, but i cudn't repair and i lost my friendship forever. The main reason of our breaking up was a common friend who said something bad about me to her and spoiled our friendship. I cud have mended it but at that time my ego stopped me. Now i regret why i didn't try to correct the situation. I would advice you not to do what I did. Go and speak to her. Try to find out what s the reason for her silence and if by chance u have done something which had upset her so badly, don't hesitate to apologise. She may be waiting to see u in person. Go, speak to her and get ur friendship back which i failed to do and regretting everyday.