People who just take something without asking...

I have put things away and these were put in a container in my mom's shop and my dad picked the lock at his house and got in itt. thanks for responding. Some people are snoopers and want to look around and they will look just becaus they think its on there property. Like the fact that I didn't grow up in that house for 24 years didn't mean anything. thanks for responding. merry christmas

We're not talking about just one thing or one small item. We are talking about someone who deliberately does it because they think they can

I've tried talking with my dad and he thinks that because it's on his property he has a right to go through it and nick pick and I don't think it' fair because we didn't do that with his stuff, which is probably what we should have been doing all along.

you are right some people just don't care.

these games have never turned back up and the container they were in was opened and all the games in them gone. I got upset with him because he deliberately got out there and got them after we told him not to get into the shop. Of course he never listens to us even if it is for his own good.

it was kind of muffled in your response but I believe i understand whta you are saying. Thanks for responding

I understand that this was on his property but that still didn't give him the right to go through it. We didn't do that with his stuff when he was out screwing every female he could find out on magnolia. And he wants to got through and pack up what's left in my mom's shop. Well, I already found something as to why i don't want him packing. There was a small piece of packaging in a serran wrap that if you rolled it up in paper you would get a good smoke off of and I'm not talking ciggs. Anyways, i don't want him planting something in there and then having the cops down here to try to get us in trouble and get my little girl taken away from me. He would be that stupid. I've already had to threaten with calling his PO on him. He thinks that after him being in jail that he's all mocho mocho and i got news for him, it ain't what your peers think it is. he's only do this because he supposedly now wants to live in the shop when the house is still in good condition and he would still have to pay a payment regardless. He's talking about renting the house out, but yet he wouldn't let us inside to get the rest of our stuff out for the past year. Now, he says that because it's still there we must have not needed it to bad. well, hes got my games that we had bought, plus sold my mom's patio set, give the weight set to my brother( the one he got for my mom) and all because he claims we haven't been up there to get it. how can you get it if you are not let to get it. he stashed some of my sister things away up in the upstairs above the garage like her senior pictures and stuff and I would have never known about them if I hadn't went to look about something else. my sister's been gone for 10 years and i don't have much of her stuff left, but it brought more memories to me than it did him and I done told him that i wanted her stuff that was left. I know it sounds like I'm being selfish but if he's going to go through everything by goly I can be a B about it too.

these things are like my things are well. if you don't have them, but once had that means that you used them at one point and will likely use it again and therefore you actually need. That's why I get mad because it has costed me money when it comes to stuff he has just upped and decided to use without asking or take from his garage without asking if it was okay. Because you feel like you have to replace it and it's not fair because you could have saved that money if they would have just told you or asked you.

first of all, it's not there at all. I've been back in the house and they are not there. This stuff was in my dad's house and he's going to make up excuses saying that because someone could easily break into that someone else took them. When it was him. Every time we've asked him about items that have been taken he just bucks up and makes that excuse. I've asked where several things were and he just kept gaving that excuse. Yet he usually knows where they are and he's not doing it to mooch, he's just doing it being he wants to be a n a hole. these weren't even in the house they were in a container out in my mom's shop in a place where he shouldn't have been able to find them. He is just doing this to get me upset. And it's worked. He took an old car that was in my name and was wrecked and hauled it off just because it was there on his property with no regard to asking me about letting it go and with no regard to the fact that the car was in my name. He done the same thing to my mom's patio set. It's a difficult situation to begin with. Thanks for your response. A normal person it would work for but not on him.

it sucks when you think that the people you could trust the most is the one you can't trust at all.