How many child u plan?
By celineml
@celineml (126)
Malaysia
November 2, 2009 8:15pm CST
hi all dear friend, normal after married we must thing how many child we one. For me if no very rich and can not care many child than better dun want born many. Maybe born one or two child enuf. Because if can not care many than u born three till four child u will awalys angry for your child. Me now got one daughter but will plan one more child. But if can me want boy because got girl ready. How many child your have? U can care them or not?
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8 responses
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
Dear Celine,
You are so blessed to have a daughter first.
Then she can help to take care of her future younger brother.
In Chinese the character 'hau' means good. It started with the
character of 'ni' which means girl and followed by 'zhi' which
means son. So, having daughter first and followed by a son means
'GOOD'. All the best to you and hope you will have a son soon.
For myself I only have a son because I am too old to have some more
No energy to take care of children with those sleepless nights,
worries when they fall sick, education is very expensive nowadays.
My son did not go to tuition, no money...
Then she can help to take care of her future younger brother.
In Chinese the character 'hau' means good. It started with the
character of 'ni' which means girl and followed by 'zhi' which
means son. So, having daughter first and followed by a son means
'GOOD'. All the best to you and hope you will have a son soon.
For myself I only have a son because I am too old to have some more
No energy to take care of children with those sleepless nights,
worries when they fall sick, education is very expensive nowadays.
My son did not go to tuition, no money...1 person likes this
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
Hi There! Chinese people is very good in imagination ! Yeah, I heard many people said if you have a elder daughter and a younger son, you are getting a Chinese character of Hap, meaning is good. I am always happy to get compliment from others that saying I am very good in giving birth a daughter and a son. I am so proud to have both of them, .
.@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
Hi Iriene, Me more like girl because when her big than will more care home or more care mommy or daddy. If boy when big than no take care home. So lucky me got girl at first and also like u say will help take care younger brother. Boy no like this do and will say to u own take care. If no money so born one enuf because we no money to give them good. Thank your sharing. happy day :)
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
Moon, u are very lucky one born one boy and one girl so good. Me also hope if me pregnant second can born baby boy than enuf close. If second also girl me also close too because no money to give them good and now all expensive like milk, pampers, see doctor all want money. If Education more expensive want buy many many thing from request to own child. Thank sharing. :P
@suisuideying (88)
• China
3 Nov 09
i thought i dou't want a child when i was young.because the child looked too much trouble.but now i think i need child ,they can bring me happy.so i hope i can take up to two children,let them comfort and companionship,along with playing.they can also take care of each other,of course ,i should spend twice the effort to take care of them.
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@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
hi suisuideying nice to meet u, thank your respond me. ya agreed normal young dun want child because thing the child very noisy and always cry. Now people also dun want many child like u two children enuf. For me also two ok ready dun want too many. Because me can not care many child. Children sometime can give we happy, enjoy, sad, angry and many funny thing we can not image.
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@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
Agree with both of you! When we are younger, we thought of want to have freedom and think self fish. Once we want settle down and we will want children when we are ready. It is not easy to become a good daddy or good mummy. Hence they are still many couples I know and they get married and don't want to have kids.
For me, I count my blessing to have two adorable children.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
Hi Celine,
Nice discussion you have there. Yeah, I agree with you, when we come to a certain age, more mature of our thinking and we do think of want to have our children especially when we get married. Now even I can see people purposely get to pregnant first before they married. So this is called the buy one free one wedding! LOl
For me, I am so happy to have a boy and a girl. I am more than enough now. I don't think I will get baby number 3 as I feel so tired now with the 2 children. It is not easy to raise and take care children. My relatives like to ask me the same question whenever they meet us, so when are you going to have another baby? For my hub, he will always say he will want one or two more baby. For me, I am really happy with both my kids already.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
Hi Celine,
They are people who get married and don't get to have kids. They try many many method to get their own baby. Some even go for adopt a baby.
But still they are people who get marry but don't wish to get a child. I just want to say we brought to this world by our parents and we may want to have our next generation too.
Hope your will get a son soon and may your dream comes true! Good Luck and JIA YOU!
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
Hi moon, yes agreed with u they get married but dun have pregnant also spent many money to see doctor or eat many them say can get pregnant the thing. But still dun have pregnant, for dun want pregnant people than always pregnant. Dun know why also. Thank me also hope if me pregnant second baby than can get the baby boy. But me also ask friend how can get the baby boy and get many information to get baby boy. hahaha
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
Hi Moon morning, for u say buy one free one before get married make me LOL. But i got thing sometime for this question too. For before married pregnant first this is for got the baby first. But havent pregnant than get married, this is for some people say more good and more nice but if after married than many year also havent pregnant this also will give other people say many oh. For u is enuf ready got one girl and one boy is very good oh. Thank your respond and thank your sharing.
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@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
hi Solared, thank your respond. For first plan one is good, maybe after three year than can plan again. But i know if at singapore all is born one child only, than them give child is very good one. Seldom people born two and more at singapore. So next time u want than plan first before your wife pregnant, than at plan time also save money together. Thank sharing. :)
@samrie29 (112)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I only have a daughter and she's only two months old. My hubby and I have always wanted to have at least 2 kids. (1 boy and 1 girl). However when my baby girl arrived and have finally experienced motherhood. I realized and have to agree wtih you that it's not that easy to raise a kid. Knowing that we're not rich either, I'm afraid that I wont be able to provide everything for our kid. As for now, my hubby and I have decided to enjoy our little girland if God wants us to have another one then so be it but hopefully after 2 years. :)
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 09
Hi Samrie, nice to meet u thank your respond my discussion. Me also have one daughter and she is going two year only. But me still havent plan to get second baby. But now economic no good all thing expensive. and also me can not handling many child me is was will hot temple type. Thank your sharing, hope u after two year can get the baby boy. Good luck.:)
@Slurpiee (97)
• United States
5 Nov 09
My first kid was planned. After months and months of trying we finally succeeded. The next three that followed were not planned. I wanted another child more than anyone could imagine, but those pregnancies would terminate early. I am just grateful to have Hailey. I try not to look at the what if's, and it seems to keep me sane most days. I guess it all comes back to be happy with what you have and not want what you can never have. =)
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
hi Slurpiee, nice to meet u. Good for plan get child first before born, because we pregnant time also spent money for go check and eat good, after born also want money for pantang time mommy eat, give people cook, baby milk ,wear , and many. So better plan before pregnant than we can save money for after pregnant and born money. Thank sharing. Good luck.:)
@froggieslover (3069)
• United States
3 Nov 09
My husband and I have two children together..our daughter is eight and our son is ten. We are finished with having children as I am no longer able to have more due to health reasons but we are okay with that because we were able to have both our son and our daughter and they are healthy. Now by no means are we rich but we make enough to make sure that we are all taken care of, that we have a safe roof over our heads, foods in their tummies and so much love from their parents.....I am so proud and thankful for the two I am blessed to have.
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
Hi Froggieslover nice to meet u, thank u respond me. Because me say why can not get many child for no very rich is now economic no good all thing price high and we do mommy also want own children can get very good for eat, play and many also buy good for them includ study also want find good school to them. So got one till two children than we all health is enuf ready. Thank your sharing.
@cutex87 (78)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 09
Well, cause I have 3 sisters and 2 brothers. i do not want to have many children. i want my child will feel comfort and get many care from me and husband.
Moreover, the economical global does not good today. having childreen seems to have many budget.
I just want have little family but we live happy
