if you don't have your own child,will you be accepted by your family ?

@zhouxi (1752)
China
November 3, 2009 8:01pm CST
Most us like child.if you don't have your own child,will you be accepted by your family? will you be accepted by your culture?
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
6 Nov 09
I don't have a child. I don't like children. Deal with it.
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
6 Nov 09
I guess I only get sad about not having children - is when I hear about someone else wanting a child and not able to have one - I wish I could give them my reproductive system - well, without my defective genetic material...
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
6 Nov 09
we have right to choose our life style.so we can choose to have a child or not.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
6 Nov 09
if you'd like,there are ways to donate.
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@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
I will still be accepted with my family even if i can't bear a child of my own.i know my family, parents, brothers and sisters will still be there for me.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
7 Nov 09
you have a nice family!good luck!
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
4 Nov 09
Isn't a person's value worth more than their ability to bear children?? I understand some families put pressure on their kids to have kids. Seems there is always work to be done.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
4 Nov 09
yes,one can have his own value except his child.
• China
4 Nov 09
wow... it's a serious problem, just look the family or people who how to think about the thing...
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
4 Nov 09
yes,different family have different view.
• China
4 Nov 09
i can understand you in some way, but i think the most important thing in our life is happy and to owe a harmonious family. certainly our parents want to become grandparents, but if you indeed dont have your own child, they will love you all the same and also accepte you. for they are your parents, you are their child. at present, people's value is becoming more and more open-mind, you can adopt a child as your kid, which can give a more colourful life to your parents.just an advice for you. have a nice day!
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
4 Nov 09
yes, i have a friend ,their family adopt a girl.
@luckyke (56)
• China
4 Nov 09
i love child very much, if i donot have my onw child i will be very very sad, and my family will be very sad too, but they will still accept me i think.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
5 Nov 09
yes, we all need perfect and idea family.