How do you remove these bugs from your life?
@chaitra001 (3278)
Bangalore, India
November 4, 2009 4:59am CST
Hi friends, there are many things in our life which might take us away from our goals.. Most of them are.. ANGER, LAZYNESS, and PRIDE.. Inorder to achive our goals in life we must remove these bugs from our life atleast to maximum extent we can..
Are you able to control these things all the time? where you successful? or did you failed? please share your experiences..
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
4 Nov 09
Hi Chaitra!
You are very right that we must drive away our negative traits from our personality, if we are to succeed in our lives. Out of three you mentioned, I can say that I am able to control my anger most of the times and I just ignore the fellow or the task, which makes me angry. I just count 1-10 to ignore the issue. As far as laziness is concerned, sometimes, I find it difficult to drive away, I love to sleep on weekends and sometimes I sleep more than the required hours and thereby missing some important tasks……….LOL! (Pl. don’t laugh). I take ‘pride’ as positive trait and I remain conscious about my self respect (pride) and do my best to show my positive side and positive qualities.
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
4 Nov 09
Hi Deepak.. well said.. yes exactly we need to drive away our negative traits in order to succeed in our lives.. I appreciate you that you can control your anger.. but for me its a failure most of the time.. and yes if we take our pride in terms of self respect then it is not a harmful to us.. but if we take as a arrogance then it will lead us to a very bad way.. Thanks for sharing.. happy myloting..
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
5 Nov 09
Chaitra! As you grow older and get more experience in your life, you will also be able to hold your anger. I also get angry many a times, but I calculate its after effects in mind and then try to control it. I agree wtih you that arrogance could be self-destructive.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Nov 09
Hi chaitra,
To be very honest I am failure to control first two things. I am not lazy all the time but sometimes on some work I am much lazy and can’t help it in any way. I am a person get angry very easily but I am trying to control wherever necessary. My kids are facing my anger most of the time, they are making some reasons, what to do and the younger one is the naughtiest in the world. He is after all the dangerous things to make me angry.
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
4 Nov 09
Hi Sreekala.. Thanks for sharing you experience honestly with me.. I too fail to Control my anger most of the time.. and about lazyness.. I am not lazy all the times.. but sometimes I feel I am the laziest in the world LOL.. Happy myloting..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
4 Nov 09
hi chaitra
well i have to declare i am a very lazy person, sometimes brings me to trouble, but certainly something i could work out on, but when it comes to anxiety, sometimes i get very anxious, it is a problem i always had, i just worry too much about certain things, it gets hard for me to control this feeling, but i am sometimes successful in doing it... we should not be worrying too much about things, it does no good, instead we should try and come up with some solution of some sort to help things out, i have a friend who worries so much about her academics, i have to keep explaining her not to assume the worst, things will get alright, we only need to divert our concentration on something useful to help not worrying about it and so i always tell her to stop worrying and start studying already, she is doing fine now.. well sometimes i too need be assured of things, assurance brings peace to me and helps me stop worrying too much, probably others don't worry this much so why should i?! anxiety is a big problem for many people but when it comes to anger i am able to control most of it, until and unless i can't keep any longer and that is the moment i let it all out, everybody has his/her breaking point and i am able to control to some extent.
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
6 Nov 09
you are right.. here in mylot we can share all our thoughts with our friends..
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
5 Nov 09
Hi voldrox.. its great to know about you.. yes most people are getting troubled with anxiety problem.. Its good that you can control your anger most of the time.. Thanks for sharing.. happy myloting..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
5 Nov 09
hi once again, well i really like to share somethings here, i feel so comfortable with it, one the main reasons so many people like this site so much, i am sure you also have fun here chaitra , getting to know about others and socializing and all these stuffs, no wonder i can't stop coming here..
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
5 Nov 09
Hi chaitra
I don't think I can remove any of the above bugs because, now a days I became too lazy even to take my food. The moment I sit in front of my system, I feel so lazy to do anyother work including bathing and cooking and cleaning the house. I think it is not a bug for me but may be a higher level than that like trojon or virus and the anti virus part will be played by my son like shooing me out from my system
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
5 Nov 09
Hi Vathsala.. you have given a very good example of virus and anti virus.. Even I am like you on weekends.. very lazy to do most of my works.. thanks for the response.. happy myloting..
@buping (952)
• China
5 Nov 09
hi chaitra, these bugs are so hard to remove actually, laziness comes the first to me. the first is to get up on time, do you know how i did? in my university, i set a alarm in my cellphone everyday to remind me getting up every morning, some would put the alarm down when hears, but i did not. i had to get up immediatly when ring be heard no matter i opened my eyes or not.hahah...
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
5 Nov 09
Hi friend.. Even I set alarm daily on my mobile..on working days.. but sometimes I dont know when I will turn it off when it rings and I will be half an hour late in waking up.. Thanks for the response.. happy myloting..
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
5 Nov 09
hi chaitra, yes, most of the time i will try to avoid these kinds of bugs. sometimes it should be with me. thankyou, have a nice day.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
4 Nov 09
These bugs are known as arishadvargas in ancient Sanskrit meaning Six inner enemies of man, They are lust, anger, greed, delusion, pride, and hate. It is said that whoever overcomes these arishadvargas to the full extent, they are none other than GOD. In my case, I have controlled these enemies upto 80%.
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
4 Nov 09
Hi Samson1967.. Wow great.. you explained it with sanskrit.. you are right these are the enemies of man for to get success in life.. Ohh really you overcome 80% !! then you have become 80% God LOL.. just kidding dont take seriously.. thanks for expanding my thoughts and sharing your opinion.. happy myloting..
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@deepasubramani (1074)
• India
4 Nov 09
Hi chaitra,
Some times i dont have control on my angry, during that time i dont speak to any one. I am not lazy all the time only in some works.
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
5 Nov 09
Hi Deepa you have got good idea that you will not speak to any one when you are angry.. Its good because when we are angry that time if we speak with some one.. we might fight with them and spoil their day too.. so its better to be quite at that time.. Thanks for sharing.. Happy myloting..
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@lovegod777 (9)
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4 Nov 09
Hi,chatra,I come from china and i am a sweet-tempered boy,I seldom became angery,so there are little trouble to take me frommy goals,but do you think there are some problem if my character is too gentleness?
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
5 Nov 09
Hi Friend.. Welcome to mylot.. nothing wrong in being gentle.. but we must oppose against the wrong things going on around us.. then its not at all a harm to you.. happy myloting..
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