boyfriend advice

November 4, 2009 5:44pm CST
When guys have no money, do you think it is wise to ask a woman out and become a couple. My story is that i really liked this girl, i was gonna ask her out, but because i had hardly any money and i was in no position to get a job. I decide not to, because if i did and she actually said yes i would find it hard to maintain the relationship. No money would resort in being in a rubbish boyfriend. I wouldn't be able to teat her and really show my love for her. I've had friends who have been in the same situation. Do you think i should of asked her out, even with money problems? Do you think i was just a fool? Men and woman can answer. what's ur opinion? Have any guys been in a similar situation? Do you need to have money to sustain a relationship? Do woman make up their mind about men and dating, when they see the man's pay check?
3 responses
kimL
@kimilawini (111)
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
Honey, my hubby and I started out having only to walk through parks, not requiring us to spend. You're in that stage where you're searching for that special girl. I'd be telling you, if that girl that you're eyeing goes wide-eyes when you bring out your wallet, drop her. Find someone who doesn't need you to be able to take care of herself, that's when you'll know that in the future, she won't be your major migraine when she ransacks your wallet to do her shopping. You'll find her, much in the same way my husband found me. Wahahahahahahah LOL
Sepitro
@Sepitro (12)
• Canada
5 Nov 09
I certianly don't think you need money to be a good boyfriend! I think it all depends on how you approach what you'd be doing as a boyfriend. It doesn't take money to love someone or care for them, it simply takes someone who has general interest in that other person. I think you should never let your financial situation get in the way of your heart. You certainly weren't a fool, and I've never been in a similar situation, but perhaps, next time, you should let your heart do the deciding, it might just lead you to a very pleasant result! :) Cheers, Sepitro
adrian_uk
@adrian_uk (29)
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4 Nov 09
you don't need a lot of money to maintain a relationship but if there is no way to buy a flower, juice or a coffe even an taxi you should stay home