how do you make important decision?
By winnieying66
@winnieying66 (49)
China
November 5, 2009 8:39pm CST
since i'm growing up,i find it is hardly for me to make decisions,like what to eat today or what to do this afternoon and so on,this trivial things take me a lot of time to think an make choice,not to mention the important decision.when i have to make this decision ,i have to discuss my problem to my friends and obtain their advice.
how about you?and when you make a decision,you just make yourself or look for other people's advice.
6 responses
@dodyast3 (1514)
• Indonesia
6 Nov 09
If it is only a decision for daily activities like what to eat or what to do, I usually take the decision very quickly. I just try to remember the nearest restaurant near me and then I decide what to eat. For the decision what I want to do, I usually call my friends where they want to hang out this afternoon. If they don't have any plan yet, so we decided together. That's if you are still single. If you already married, then you need to ask your husband or wife whether he/she wants to go somewhere or you can tell him/her that you want to go somewhere if he/she has no plan to go.
@winnieying66 (49)
• China
6 Nov 09
how about the important decisions?which one's advice you admire most and why?
@winnieying66 (49)
• China
6 Nov 09
well, could you please give me some more details about why you think family is the best one who know you,to be honest,it is true,but sometimes i do not think parents or other family members know what your truly want and think.
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Hi winnieying! Actually, it's not so hard for me in deciding on things. I have developed a good decision-making skills since I was young. As I grew older, I even tried to be independent in many ways. And as a result of that independence is my responsibility for my own decisions and actions,. Although I usually ask advice from the most important persons in my life, like my parents and family. I consider their opinions but it's still up to me if I will follow them or not. :)
@winnieying66 (49)
• China
6 Nov 09
well,it's hard for me to make decisions like you do,hope i can handle this problem and thanks for your sharing.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
6 Nov 09
When it comes to important decisions, I tend to take a little time to think. If i need advice, I would ask the people I trust and those who have only my best interests at heart and then I'll compare with mine and make a decision. I'm not impulsive so I do try to analyze before I make any major decisions.
@AlimK1983 (5)
• United States
6 Nov 09
When it comes to making important decisions, I usually like to get advice from my family and friends first. I like to get their perspective on the matter. After that, I analyze the situation in detail. After going over the pros and cons, I then come to making a final decision.
