Have you ever not been appreciated

i see what you mean and i do things with thoughtfulness and with love but my aunt is lazy for example today which is monday 11/9/09 i got to her apt i baby sit for her by the way, well i get here and the bottles are all dirty except 2. she has dirty dishes in the sink and dirty pots on the stove and i know she is expecting me to wash them because i have washed them before for her to try to help her out. but she has crossed the line too far now. i always leave her the kitchen clean!! all bottles washed in case she needs them for the day and night. and since she gets home late her and my uncle i cook for them. it is not part of the business of babysitter i just do it from the kindness of my heart. but i can't do it no more. they have been pushing my buttons too much already!!leaving everything dirty all the bottles dirty so that i have to wash them when i get here. this is too much now even for me i have alot of patience but not no more!! even when i cook for them she doesn't even have the decency to atleast wash the pots and dishes!!! can you believe that?? well she does it too many times a week. i am here mon-fri from 7 a.m.-5:30 p.m. the latest. but she has been getting here late till 7 almost 8 at night!! that is too late. i stay here at their apt during the week to not waste gas but i leave on the weekend so that is why i cook. when she gets home she will just sit there and watch tv and my uncle has to tell her to start cooking or she just won't do it. she is very lazy even with her own twin girls. anyways there is much much much more to this story but i know you probably don't care i just had to blow some steam off. loved it!! thanks for your comment by the way i just wished they were a little more appreciative towards me because i take alot of their crap and do alot of things for them too. happy mylotting maria s.

Actually you've been working hard for them.You know what i stay with my aunt and uncle's house before but i dont encounter this kind of circumstances like you do.Your wrong im a good listeners to everybody and i wish i can do something for them to make their feeling a little bet better,.We have different experience in life of whom we live together. Do things for them and make them more satisfied.take care your self and have a nice day always.tnx maria s.

Well yeah I see what you are saying but it is not good to think that way you should be nicer to people!! I know you are tryin to help me out and maybe I should be somewhat the way that you tell me but I just can't do it. I can't make myself do something like that. It is hard very hard to do something like that. I would probably freak out or start to apologize to the person like crazzzzzzzy if I didn't something like that. I have a weak heart and can't imagine being a hard azz to everyone that trys to run me over. thanks for the advice though!!happy mylotting thanks buddy!!!!!!!!maria s.