People come and go..
By breinchem
@breinchem (89)
Philippines
November 6, 2009 4:33am CST
I can still remember myself when I was still in High school chatting with my friends about going to college and what we want. That was just like four years ago..and time seemed to fly so fast. I just met some of my classmates in facebook and I learned that most of them have their own families, husband or kids. They said they are happy. And where am I right now? I'm still in college but hoping to graduate this coming March. But I think I am also happy with the path I have chosen. I have a lot of people with my job and at the same time in school. Much more I will never regret to have the person who makes each of my morning so beautiful and colorful..my boyfriend, he just means everything to me..I know time will come that I will also get to their path..but for the mean time..I have to think of one magic word. "Enjoy"!
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10 responses
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
6 Nov 09
Yes, people come and go, but some will come back in your future to stay. Make a reunion party every 2 or 3 years. it's fun, seeing how they develop, some got rich, some stayed that way, some got poor. Some got married, some already divorced.Enjoy each friendship. The bad ones only make you a wiser person.
@breinchem (89)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
I think so. What's important is we became a wiser person everyday. We learn about different people we meet. It's not only the happy moments that we always needs to cherish, but bad times with these people can also be. Bad times are not just times when we quarrel,,sometimes it's when our love ones leave us, and still trying to believe that you will see each other again..
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
Believe me, even your ex who left you sometimes come back to our path again. I had that experience twice (accidentally). The other wanted to continue what was broken (15 years ago), but I do not love him anymore. And the second was my long time teenage lover, who got divorced..and said he finally realized I was the best thing that happened in his life. But..hmmm ...too late, I stopped loving him too, so we became the best of friends nowadays.
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
7 Nov 09
Your topic attracted me'people come and go'
This is what i want to say.This season is autumn one of my good friends she is getting married I am so happy for her.I still remember when we were in school (we were classmate as well) we got so much fun.Talk about future, dreams,life,work,who will married the first.and a few years ago time changed a lots of thing.Suddenly it come up to my mind people in our life they came and left.some we can remember some we can't.I just want to say value everyone you've met.
@breinchem (89)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
yeah right..And we learned to value them when they are already gone..when we feel the emptiness and miss them..
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
that's life and it's part of growing up. As much as we may wish it weren’t so, a plain fact of human relationships is this: People come and people go.Sure it's sad to lose touch with a friend, but how more frustrating to have a would-be friend become a won't be.People fly in and out of our lives at rapid speeds coming and going like the wind. Bracing ourselves for all the hello’s and goodbye’s can be difficult.
@breinchem (89)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
I can say hello to a thousand man everyday, but saying goodbye to one person can take you a lifetime. It's really hard and I agree to that. Especially when you can't be friends anymore..
@breinchem (89)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
Thanks. I think we have to. We are only given a short life which can be gone by tomorrow.. God gave it, and He can take it. So, I have to enjoy it.;)
@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
7 Nov 09
Welcome to the adult world. The older you get the faster time flies. Try to make intelligent decisions and sit back and enjoy the ride you cannot fight it the end will come soon enough. The only thing you can do at that time to look back and say "I did it my way".
@BlueQ123 (29)
• Singapore
6 Nov 09
Yes! People come and people go! I used to be very upset whenever I think of my good friends in high school and varsity. Where are they now? I unable to keep in touch with all of them.
After high school, some studied in college, some studied in varsity, some studied overseas, some married and some of them found their first job in life. I felt good to be able to keep in touch with few of them! But some of them really disappear...
I think this apply to my family members too. I have 9 siblings. We used to be very happy staying under one roof. But after everyone have our own family, we seem to be unable to meet each other frequently. I used to be very sad.
I guess this is process of life. A path that everyone of us will experience it. So, yes, you are right. We should treasure each stage of our life and enjoy it! :)
@breinchem (89)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
Even with family members too? I'm afraid that may happen to me. I don't want to be separated with them or maybe not that far. I love my 2 siblings but they are just 5 and 9 years old. Maybe spending more time with them now would be good...:)..Thanks for that..
@chivann (138)
• Cambodia
6 Nov 09
your situation is a bit similar to me. I just graduated from high school 1 year ago. We(all of my friends) separated our ways to different universities. I miss them so much but i cant do anything. i remember the way we played football as a team together, that's pretty awesome. NOw i have to let it all go and enjoy with new friends. Hoo that's my life...
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
6 Nov 09
I agree with you completely. People don't have to rush through life because they want to be on the same level as the people around them. Do what you want to do, and take your time doing it. I'm in high school right now, and many of my friends have boyfriends, but I don't think it's the right time. I want to live my life the way I want to live it. I hope you have a happy life =)!
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
6 Nov 09
People always come and go into our lives and they always leave an imprint in our hearts. Good or bad moments with them still make us a better person that's why from time to time we can't do away by remembering them and wondering how they are and what's going on with their lives.
While we have the chance to be with our friends and our loved ones...let's enjoy each others company and learn from each other.
@deeds678 (9)
• United States
7 Nov 09
Isn't it funny how in high school we all thing we'll stay friends forever? I miss a lot of my old friends, but then again, not really. I don't mean that in a bad way, I just mean everything happens for a reason! For every friend I've lost touch with I've met a new person just as or even more interesting! But I have to say, the new technologies of Facebook & Myspace are so awesome! I love that I've gotten to find out how most of their lives have turned out! And their simply is no one path to follow! Everyone finds their happiness on a different journey. As you said, "Enjoy"!
