What is more important? Follow your heart or brilliant logic?
By situskeren
@situskeren (95)
Indonesia
November 6, 2009 12:12pm CST
I have boyfriend.
We hv relationship for about 3 months..
He is ideal man in my eyes.he is nice,funny,religious,worked and love me.but he is so far away.
In this 3 months,we just meet once.
In the other side,there is a man that sometimes i thinked about.he is n0t an ideal man.but he is in my heart.
He is nice,anger,not really religious,not work yet,and love me.
But he have a girlfriend.
I dont kn0w how to do..who should i hold?
The ideal one,or the one that in my heart?
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4 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
6 Nov 09
Regardless of how long it may take to finally be with the boyfriend of 3 months you would be very foolish to settle for the other. Actually you would be foolish even if you didn't have the first one.
Read again how you describe him. He is nice but gets angry. Not religious but it seems you are. He is out of work, this is a problem only if the reason is he doesn't like to work.
If a man shows you that he can get angry, even while your just boyfriend/girlfriend, you can count on it being far worse as time goes on. Thank depends on what makes him angry of course. Regardless funny is so much better than angry.
Do not give up on boyfriend number one. Give it time and see where it may go. If it works out you will be soooo happy you did.
@andrey0109 (297)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Nov 09
i go with jbrooks0127. Sometimes following our heart is not the best decision we could make because of things that we don't expect to happen at the end.
@kush20006 (515)
• India
7 Nov 09
follow your heart but keep mind in the way too in making decision
you are fortunate that you have options people have none of them
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
6 Nov 09
I believe the best advice we can take is to follow our hearts. Logic can only take you so far. The heart is a complicated thing. It can take you places you've never known. It can show you things that logic never can. Follow your heart on life's journey!
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
6 Nov 09
If he has a gf then still he lves you....leave this guy and go to the ideal one....
