What is your chief disappointment in being single?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
November 7, 2009 5:10am CST
It's when you're with the group and you're the only one without a partner in that trip. I know it shouldn't really be a big bother, but it's different when they're all with their partners and you are 'left out'. Another would be when everyone is busy, there's no one really you could drag to be with you without hesitation - well there's hesitation when it's a sports night, but still he will be there whether he likes it or not hahahaha.. in a good way. What about you?
7 responses
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
17 Apr 10
Well I feel really unvomfortable when I look aroung in the coffee or in the park and I see that everybody around me are sitting in pairs and laughing happily.I also feel bad as I was used to sleep with my boyfriend and now as I am alone i hug my pillow and imagine it's him.But this way I cannot feel that the pillow is hugging me...and I need it.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
You recently been alone? That is exactly how I felt when he left to work in another country.
10 Apr 10
Mine is when I come back home for visitan d I go out for a meal with my mum, dad, bro and his girlfriend. It's not so much the going out with couples but when they add an extra table on the end of the table for you to sit on all on your billy! Talk about a gooseberry!!!!!!!!!!!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Oh I know that feeling! I really hate it when everyone is with someone and you end up without a 'pair'. So awkward.
• India
7 Nov 09
This was the type of question that i was really expecting for the day,since i'm single..the chief disappointment is that i'm not able to roam out with any company other than my parents or relatives.most of my friends are commited and they roam out with their girlfriends and the ones who donot have dont even bother to get out of their homes..seriously i'm fond of roaming..that i think is the chief disappoinment of being single.. Happy Mylotting.
@ralphido (842)
• India
8 Nov 09
well.. my friend.. you're missing out on the greatest advantage of being single.. if you are in a party. you can hook up with any girl and take her home with you if you want without having to watch over your back .. you have the liberty to flirt with almost anyone you choose.. and meet new people and make new friends and hang out with them as you please.. you wouldn't feel so sorry about your bachelor life when your married and done for,.
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• United States
7 Nov 09
My chief disappointment with being single is that I don't have anyone to talk to. For the really big things in life, there are friends I can talk to. But for the more mundane things, there's no one around. If I watched a good movie on television, or listened to a really great song that I'd never heard before, there's no one I can share the simple pleasures of life with.
• China
8 Nov 09
I'm an emotional animal sometimes. It really needs courage to speak it out especially when it's from a single lady's mouth because no one come to comfort me when my emotion floods. Even someone is willing to, I couldn't accept him not being my Mr right. Couldn't get careness when I need, that's my chief disappointment in being single.
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• Philippines
7 Nov 09
my chief disappointment is I don't have enough money to save and spend for my family and friends.I am not really affected when I am invited as a third or fourth wheel.besides,when they are absorbed with their partners,I have my IPod to keep me busy.I don't want to feel disappointed or pity because I am currently single.I am happy with my life.