why our friends are not permanent?
By kush20006
@kush20006 (515)
India
November 7, 2009 8:30am CST
why it happens that we have different friends in childhood
adult life and old age
why our orientation of friendship change with time
6 responses
@michael74 (122)
• Singapore
7 Nov 09
Hi kush20006,
In my opinion a few realities in life
First,as we go through life, we encounter a lot of people and this people regardless of what stage you are in would definitely or in somehow may affect your likings,interests and beliefs and it is a fact.In other words Influence
Second, Lifestyle, as we progress in life,as we grow older, we start to want something,something that some of your friends will not like so you tend to look for other people who likes the same as you do. Thus the transition from one friend to another takes place.
Third, EVENTS,why events? Lets say for some reason you have to study to a far away place or you have to be at work most of your day or move away from your place.With this situation, you tend to loose contact with your old friends, and as humans we need company. Then here comes a new set of friends.
But for me, even as time leads us to have new set of friends, A FRIEND will always be those people who accepts me and will always there for me through thick and thin
@kush20006 (515)
• India
7 Nov 09
but tell me then what is difference between friend and mate in true sense
@borhan (1338)
• United States
7 Nov 09
Life is a running system. In it's various phases you enjoy childhood, college life, matured age, marriage life, having children, you be some day grandpa or grandma. Here everybody is running through these same phase lines. In course of time you get someone close to us and at the same time after that phase line both of you are moving in two different directions. In different phase lines, your choice, liking, view changes and thats how associations also get changed. Thats how known friends go missing, go far away. But those who are your real friend, they never leave. They may stay far away, but they always stay close to heart.
Thank you.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
7 Nov 09
Hi,This is mainly because of changing places and studying in different places depend on our parents work places.Later our work place and changes after marriage..we ourselves becoming parents..different places..different stages...and changing priority ..all these reasons influencing the friends and friendship.One more thing,now a days financial positions also influencing friendships.
Have a nice time.
@akashvermabba (158)
• India
8 Nov 09
its change according to the time
when you are in school life then your different friends and when you are in college then differnt