Who should make the first move in bed?

I definately think either the man or woman should be able to make the first move. If you are in a relationship with someone you should feel comfortable doing so. s I like to be in control sometimes too and love making the first move with my man.

def not! I say who ever gets there first! :) No one likes to be the one initiating it all the time so when the mood hits, act on it! If the other is not in the mood they will let you know but it still feels good to know you are wanted! Single people may not get this but all those married people and ESPECIALLY those with kids will understand! Follow through may not always happen but getting that spark started is half the battle!

HECK NO! While sometimes I would rather my man to start the action, there are other times when I will start it. It all depends on my mood and what is all going on

it is not that simple , it has to be a sort of sign language between the two, it is learned between the relationship, its a communication thing, Its a freedom thing.

Usually I always make the first move. But I love when my girl make the first move, it just make the things a bit different, kind of more fun when she come and start seducing you and playing with you, so much better than when you go do it... for me that is...