He picked his poker buddies over ME!

"My boyfriend and I had planned to do some shopping, make some chicken wings and just relax" I think I see your problem.........lol. I can't say thats ever happened. My lady lives a little ways away in the next state, though we do spend a lot of time together anyways. I don't have any problems with her making plans to go out with friends, hell, as often as she wants, it isn't really a big deal to me, go, have fun, see ya when ya get home, etc. but there hasn't been an ocaision yet where I have been "blown off" (for lack of a better word).

Sorry to hear about what happened. Yes, I've experienced the same but he did make it up in a good way after he realized how much it upset me. I am not a typical nagger. In fact, when I'm mad I just ignore him and don't really say much until he sits down and decides to listen.

That is too bad that he chooses to change his plans at the last minute excluding family. It doesn't do any good to complain to him. Maybe next time you can offer to drop him off so that you can have the car. You would at least be able to go do something even if it was not what you had planned. Make the day special without him fix his favorites, enjoy the movies you planned and maybe he will notice what he missed. Maybe not. Make your own pleasure. It is unfortunate that he is insensitive but don't let it get you down.

Girlfriend You're not alone! When men are in relationships they dont see things as we do. He is being selfish but not against you personally. Its testosterone. I am not condoning what he did. You have to let him know how it feels. Its the only way. The next time you two are sitting alone at home, chicken wings in oven. Have one of your friends call and invite you out. Take them up on it. He will then hopefully see that it was wrong. It doesnt always work. If not you may have to exhibit tough love my dear. Dont let him play you regardless. He needs to be aware one way or another. Been there done that dl

No never had that happen in any relationship, often times all my relationships we try to include each other in our activities. Seriously a man I must be confused, because I can never understand picking your friends over your girl for any reason, I mean the few things I wanted to do, I always invited her ahead of time, or she came with us, either way I didn't spring things on her at the last minute. Just like if there was something she wanted to do I had no interest in, then I let her know it was fine for her to go do it, it woudn't upset me and vice versa. I dunno it's not the thing I would do you make plans you stick with them. You saying he just up and told you thats what he was going to do? What happen to discussions and compromises? I'm sorry, but that seems like a jerk thing to do. You said you never have time, what's the point of a relationship if the only time you ever have to do anything you never spent it together. If I were you i'd turn the tables on him when he wants something, because your not just a resource to be used when he pleases.

I know bf can be like that sometimes. I guess you should talk to him tell him if he would like it if you ditch him last min to be with your firend see what he say

You just get to a point in your life where you decide to have fun in spite of what other people are doing. Real friends (and boyfriends) won't ditch you just because something more fun comes along. That is just rude. There are plenty of ways for you to have fun without him. Go enjoy your life in spite of him and his rude behavior. You have to make your own happiness and always write your plans in pencil so you can erase and rewrite them if something comes up. You never know, you might just find a guy who will treat you like a lady.

He is a guy and they sure can be jerks sometimes. They can be lots of other colorful words too, but I will leave that to your imagination. I am so sorry for you, it sucks. I think all women can relate in some way to how you feel. I do hope you do your best to enjoy the evening with you daughter, thats precious time spent with her. Maybe you can think of something really ornery to do to your boyfriend to retaliate, like put itching powder on his side of the bed.

Yes, although not in the same way. When you have plans you should keep them. He sounds a little immature to me. The thing with us is, we never go out anywhere. We have have our house and she likes to basically stay home. But every now and then, on her days off, she and her friend will get together. I'm talking about maybe once a month. It really doesn't bother me. Sometimes the us not doing anything thing sort of does but right now we can't afford to do much anywhay with me being unemployed. but it probably woudn't change if I did find a job. If Paul Mcartney came into town to do a concert then yes, we would be going out again. But if we do have plans on doing something, we stick to it.

Hey Girlie...well if we lived closer we could hang out!! I think all guys have done this at some point!! My boyfriend usually goes to hang out with his brother and when I text or call him he is MIA, luckily it doesn't happen too often anymore. I would be super pissed too if we didn't have alot of alone time cause I think that is important in a relationship! When is he gonna come home? If it isn't too late maybe ya'll can stay up late and watch a movie after your daughter goes to bed! That is what we are gonna do when my boyfriend gets home from work. Usually on Saturday nights me and the kids just chill at the apartment and we always watch Cops (I know it's not the best kids show but we like it ).

he is a guy,after all.he has the tendency to bail out plans.next time,you should just plan what you are doing on weekend.plan shopping with friends,rather than with him.you may also plan something with your daughter,but don't include him.show him that your weekend doesn't revolve solely around him.

my boyfriend just got upset with me just because of his electric guitar!imagine, i don;t have the intention to drop the guitar it fell because he put it in an elevated side of the bus and i am counting our bus fare then it slipped, then he did not talk to me all through out the way....and he told me that i did it on purpose!!!am i not important than that guitar...i was about to say sorry but when he told me that i have the intention to do that.....the nerve! if i did it on purpose the guitar can never be used again...

hello prikayjo, It's nice to spend time with friends but he should have made that plan after you two pursued with your family time. and another thing, poker? for me, is a bad thing because it's gambling, most inefficient now because we are in crisis, and people are saving money. it would be bad too if it happens too often

Well, if you had a bad experience before, then I suggest you talk about it. It is obvious that men don't see things the way women do, I have learnt that the hard way. It should work both ways from the start. Why should you be the one to feel affected by not being with your partner, when he does what interests him and, you off-course sitting at home alone with your daughter, wondering why and what ifs. I think that you should pay attention to what interests you the most, then you you won't be so independent on someone else for comfort. And, you having a daughter probably ties him up to enjoy his outdoor life.