What if you know your friend lie to you?

China
November 8, 2009 1:36am CST
I knew clearly that she lied to me and I also knew she did that for my sake,what should I do?
6 responses
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Of course we are getting hurt when we know that our friend lied to us. No one's like to feel that way even she or he got to know that his friend lied to then also. But there are times that our friends lied in different reasons for their own purposes. Sometimes they lied for the goodness of others or for the safety of their lives. The only thing that makes us hurt is, if they were lied in terms of love. This is a big deal to me and so complicated to explain. To lie has many reasons. It maybe for good or bad.
• China
8 Nov 09
Yes,when we meet something complicated,we will feel so confused that make some decision wrong so I think I should cosider it carefully,thanks.
@babyania (161)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
yay. she lied for your own sake? isn't it sweet? LOL.just kidding. i think it still dpends on the situation. if she did that for a good cause, then maybe you can try to forgive her?
• China
8 Nov 09
Yes,I think you are right.
• India
8 Nov 09
hi dear friend if you know that your friend lied and it is for your good then just forget it and take it as little have a nice day thank you
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
if it;s for good intention then i have no reason to be angry at my friend but if he/she is only after of his/her own personal interest then that's a different story. :D
• China
8 Nov 09
Use your heart to move her. Do not act against her, so that may be bring the opposite effect. There is an old saying:good for evil.
• China
8 Nov 09
I am sorry hear about that. I think that is very hard to process it for you. but the first you could do nothing and just see her performance to decide that if you want to continue to be friend with her. If it happen to me ,I 'm not know how to deal with it too.