What qualities do u have that helps maintain good relationships with others?

@shhheila (1845)
Philippines
November 8, 2009 5:17am CST
What qualities do u have that helps maintain good relationships with others? for me its the ability to appreciate others and treat them the way would like them to treat. honesty and loyalty and not judging them by their looks "dont judge the book by its cover", being open and being real... its makes me have good relationship with my friends and family and to some other people who knows me... and being friendly and being approachable to new people too...
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@2babita (1072)
• India
9 Nov 09
Well shhheila,i think my friends and relatives can say it better.hahahah.Well,i think its the behaviour and attitude which attract my friends and relatives to keep good relationships.
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@vincyk (198)
• China
8 Nov 09
To maintain a good relationship ,care and respect eachother is quite important in my eye.I have two true friend in my life and i connect with them almost everyday.Everytime we get together we all feel the time is flying and we have so much interesting things and feel so happy.Most of my secrets will be shared with them,so when i am in blue i always can have a good way to release it and the same to theirs.I really love my two good friends.
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@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Sincerity in our dealings with them, I guess gains their trust and ultimately leads to a lasting relationship. I also practice the art of "always giving the benefit of the doubt" . I might have misread their words and actions and sometimes it is wise to be tolerant. Perhaps we may be on the wrong and that we have misinterpreted them.
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@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
9 Nov 09
I try to listen and help where I can. Lately everyone who knows me, says I am so sweet and nice. I have the feeling being sweet and nice just pushes people away. It causes jealousy too. Sometimes I think it is better to be rude and egocentric. You get more respect. Being sweet and nice, people start treating you as if you are stupid. Lately I am very confused as how to get alone with others.