I have been away from Mylot for a while and now I am back for a while hopefully.

@sudalunts (5523)
United States
November 8, 2009 7:23am CST
My mother passed away in June and I lost all desire to spend time on Mylot. I have been out of work for a long time and I guess with my mother's passing and no job, I got myself into a slumber. I spend most days on the computer trying to find work as opposed to being on mylot. My job search has not been successful, but I think if I start mixing up my internet actvities a little and try to incorporate mylot back in, I will be able to balance out my day, without it ending in such frustration. To make this a discussion, have you ever lost your desire to be on Mylot???
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@getbrowser (1708)
• China
9 Nov 09
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Everyone may meet some difficult situations in their journey of life. Perhaps we think the life is unfair, perhaps we have no mind to continue our life when meeting some troubles. But when these troubles appear, we have to try our best to face them with our counage. I have joined myLot for just several weeks and until now, I haven't lost my desire to be on myLot. But if I meet some despairing things someday, I may lose all my desire to spend time here. Everything goes well.
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• Kenya
9 Nov 09
Hi sudalunts,am very new on mylot so I have not experienced any loss of desire.Am sorry about your mum but I read some of your other responses and I think you made a good decision to come back here with all those people with the same experiences and all those encouraging words from all the great people on this site.Hope you are here to stay.One love.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
9 Nov 09
I am sorry your mother passed sudalunts. Upon seeing your username just now it occurred to me it had been awhile since I had last seen you post. My brother past away July 6 of last year. It was a very sad time for me, and I found that I couldn't get on mylot. It was two days before my birthday, but I don't think that's what made it hit hard for me. I still miss him, think of him, and tear up (like right now) because of him, but I know he is much happier in Heaven. I hope you will find a job soon, but in the meantime, do continue to mylot.
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@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
9 Nov 09
Sorry to hear about your mother and the job, too. I come and go as well, mostly because it's hard to stay interested when I see repeated topics. Apart from that, I have a busy work schedule so that keeps me off of mylot. I think it would be nice for you to engage in online discussions here to earn and just have conversation. It could be a way for you to get motivated and somehow get back into your routine. I hope everything goes well here on.
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• China
9 Nov 09
I come here not long time. I think the Mylot is the best web to study, interact and earn. I will keep up with it.
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• United States
9 Nov 09
hi I have not been on here long but enjoy talking with others. I know how you may feel. My mom passed a few years back , I think of her daily, My dad passed 6 months after she did and my brother one year later after that. it was as if I was spaced and sad all the time I learned to keep involved in things and keep them in my thoughts and love always. I got sick because of all that went on and days seem lost but I know we have to pick up and keep going for that is what they would had wanted. I was at a point where I could not talk to people about them unless I cried but now it has gotten better but always in my thoughts my love is deep. I know being as a friend and talking to others in hope to help another that has been in the same path. Keep talking with others and it is not really the money but good friends to talk to can never be bought, but there for you. Hang in there. You are not alone . Their love is in you and you are part of them also. Ever need someone to talk with look me up..God Bless You.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I have not been on myLot much at all in the last few months. I have done more on myLot today than I have in probably the last 2 months. I just did not feel like being here. I think it has been about 4 or 5 months since I actually made payout here. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I am sure that added to all the stress you already have was horrible.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Sorry for your loss. It can be rough to deal with. I got into facebook alot recently. But I do try and make an effort to be here. I haven't made payout for last month. First time in a LOOONG time. But I have a baby son (11 mo old) and a 6 yr old daughter. They keep me hopping. I found at home work here. www.genuinejobs.com It might have something helpful. It isn't a ref. link and it is free. Good luck with your search. I am sure things will look up soon.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Nov 09
sudalunts not until today when mylot willnot load all my responses.grrrrr. but I am so glad to see you back. I had wondered what had become of you.losing you mom and being out of work can be a bad combination. Hope you find a job 'soon, myown son had been out of work for months now so 'you are not alone. welcome back sudalunts.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
8 Nov 09
Wow really sorry that you lost your mom and all that you have been through ,I am happy that you are back and I for one missed your witty responses .Glad to have you back and I think you made a wise decision to be back .I too lost my affinity for mylot and spent months away and believe me I always felt like something was missing and that is why I came back and teh kind of welcome I got from my friends told me that I never want to to be away again.I am there fore wishing you a very long stay here on mylot
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@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
9 Nov 09
Sorry about your mothers passing. It is really difficult going through this situation and I an happy for you that you decided to get on with your life and continue with my lot, I am sure after a be able to get through with your grief with the help of my lot. Keep up with the job search, you never know when you would be lucky