i'm not a MILF

thanks steph,it is only a funny discussion and nothing else

yes my man fancies me,and he's the one not giving any,not me,,the house is mine not his,i pay half of everything,so i'm not dishonouring anyone,my man actually finds this discussion quite funny,he thinks i should be a MILF coz he says i'm gorgeous

What on earth makes you think this young woman isnt the provider!?! What makes you think the house is not hers!? $I find this comment very very sexist actually!!! And if she is married to her partner...they the house is THEiRS not his. He'd out "breaking his back", for HIMSELF not for her. Such an old fashioned view that it's the mans "house", and he is the one out working. Taken a funny and jokey discussion to a place it didnt need to be, it was a joke as far as I could tell, doormouse wants to be fancied by young men!! I myself wouldnt, it would make me uncomforatble, but it was a jokey discussion, no need to get all heavy on her about her husband going out and working for her food nd she is disrespcting him!!! So old fashioned.

You are attractive enough little mouse. I looked at your pic in your profile. Don't let this comment get you. ok?

maybe i'm not attractive enough,who knows

thanks for that,i'm glad not everyones taking this discussion seriously

know exactly how you feel

MILF==mum i'd like to f**k

ohhhhhhhhhhh

thanks,i'll try to remember that

Well Is that you in the photos...and you are still complaining ??? I can't believe this ..What the hell is wrong with young kids over there....???

Better than that pic ??

i look much better now i've lost weight

you're never too old,i have a soon to be hubby,but feeling flattered is good,i'd never do anything with the boys,uuurrrgggh,how gross

guess I was just looking at your face...features & eyes. I really did not think you looked fat and did not think your hair looked funny. You should put up a current picture of yourself.

thanks for that,my son is 14,and how can you think my picture is nice,i'm so fat in that one and my hairs funny

they're 14 and 15,but my boyfriends where that sort of age when they liked my mum

thanks honey,that's very sweet

that photo was awful,i've lost weight and had my done since that was taken

okay.. then upload your new photos.. Thew slim and sexy doormouse. I would love to see your new photos sweetheart.

She didn't say she wanted to have s*x with you ajayrocks :-S what is it with people on here today.

It stands for "Mother - I'd - Like to - F***" Seriously, I'm not being sarcastic, that is litteraly what it stands for.

so i am a FILF

that means your highly sexy

OHHH. Now I see what set you off. Well, in some cases you can still have one provider, in a lot of cases you NEED two. Sometimes one of the people has to have more than one job. As far as who is ultimately responsible and who everything BELONGS to - take a look at a deed sometime. In MOST cases the house is in both names, in many cases, cars may be in both names OR they are in the person's name who has better credit so they got a better deal. I definitely see you do not believe in equality, which doesn't make any sense. You probably don't agree that while one 'provides', the other one does everything else, such as care for kids and take care of the home and run errands, cook, clean, etc. Those ARE equal even though one does not give a paycheck. If both are working outside the home, then you have to hire people to take care of your kids - and thus you miss out on raising your kids. That is a deal breaker for me, as I would easily hire a housekeeper and likely order take out food because if I was working full time I could afford it. However, I won't work full time because I refuse to waste the money to pay someone ELSE to raise my daughter because she is my daughter and nobody else has any business raising her. different things work for different people and there are still people who get married and remain married. Not everybody cares about what else is out there or the whole milf issue either. Of course there are some people who never get married because of exactly the scenario you described. Honestly, pick your own path in life. There is a lot of bad out there but there is also a lot of good. It is never all just one way or another, it is a choice. I'm sorry your choices led to negativity but that isn't a fact for everybody. Don't bash someone else because you're bitter about your situation.

One more thing - I'm sorry you're getting laid more now that you're NOT married. I disagree with that entirely and I never understand when people gripe about it. You would think that whatever lit your fire enough to GET married would continue, or you'd purposely make time for it. Heck, we do, even though we had to lock the kids out of the bedroom Bottom line, people who decide they are going to act like they are celibate after they marry drive me nuts. I think they are crazy. If you intend to act that way, don't frigging get married at all!

calm down,calm down,,this is supposed to be a fun discussion not a blinkin arguement,i've been through a horrible divorce aswell,the man was violent and unhinged,but do you see me having a go,no you don't,we are here to have fun,now get a grip xx

glad to see someone isn't taking this post seriously,44 isn't too old to be a milf,you've still got plenty of years left yet

LOL! Okay but isn't it enough to get that attention from your husband and perhaps other men around your age? I have the unfortunate 'blessing' to be thought of as about 10 years younger than I am, and in my opinion, someone even my age is 'too young' because my hubby is older than me. On occasion I get a glance from someone I consider my league - someone older and stable, not one of my son's friends lol. I think it's rather embarrassing that my son's friends think his mom is hot, especially because I have met some of their moms and my son wouldn't say the same about them.

i don't find kids of that age attractive,yuck,and i certainly would never do anything with anyone too much younger than myself,it would just be nice to know that i still got it,that's all

Younger guys are attracted to certain types of older women who usually look like they're younger than they are. It's probably alot about the way the moms act too, if they act like they'd be available to the younger guys it gives them a hope to dream. I don't think their opinion of you should matter, in fact I don't think looks should matter at all... but if they do matter, they should be to people that you would actually consider being with.

it's not that i want them crushing on me,it's the fact my friend is one and i'm not,and i want to know why,,it isn't an age thing,as i said before,this is a fun discussion,not to be taken seriously

i do have respect for myself,it was just a post i thought i'd start,it wasn't meant to be serious

Sorry to disrespect you! I just comment on what I read!

i'm 32 and quite a hip mum,so my sons friends say

Oh. Well, I cant really recommend anything useful, I'm sorry because I don't know what you look like person. I'm also not a mother myself so I really have no idea. I was just trying to give suggestions lol. Weak attempt though.

thanks,i've had one reply from someone that thinks i'm a MILF