Is your life complicated ?

It's all about mindset, my friend. Don't need to question God about your existence. My life is complicated by things that I have no control over but that doesnt mean I have a crappy existence. I make the best of things and I try to be good to others because I believe in the saying: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." I get into disagreements with family members, too, but we don't get into heated arguments because we respect eachother at the end of the day. I don't like my Dad very much, too, but my issue with him doesn't take over or control my very existence. Again, this all goes back to your mindset, whether you choose to have a positive or negative outlook on life.

mdaazam why is it a piece of crap? Are you ill,homeless,in a wheelchair, have a fatal disease, in danger of going to prison? Probably not so see how wonderful you life is,you are healthy you are well, you have a home. So it is the interaction in your family, why are you fighting? is there any way you could just sit day and talk the problems out? I know smoking is sure not the answer.Maybe you could get some family members to go to family counseling with you and get some outside help.why do you hate your dad, did he do something to you he should not have done?I hated mine because he betrayed my innocence in my childhood but hatred does not hurt him it only hurts you.

Life is a series of lessons so you can either learn from them or continue to run in circles beating yourself up. Have you ever heard the phrase, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger? Next question, do you have a plan for your life...is there anything that interests you? Ok, that was two questions. If you're unhappy look at why and change what you can, accept what you can't change. If you're unhappy fighting with your mum and your bro, look at what triggers the fights and avoid them. Try being nice and see what happens. Smoking doesn't make you a bad person...you will meet new loves, etc. You are in charge of your destiny to take control and uncomplicate your life...one step at a time.

Of course you created by God with purpose and have use friend. As of now you could not see the light in front of you because it was blocked by your sentiments or something like that you're the only one knows. Fighting with your mom is not good as well as your brother with no good reasons why you need to fight them? for what? Complicated life begins to complicated things. Try to avoid those things so that you will not be in that way. I know boy that you are old enough to understand what is positive and negative, and to think that you are a bright boy.. Have a happy day!

Hi mdaazam, Don't put yourself down like that, everyone at some point in their life will have a down period but it passes. Everyone has a use and a purpose in life and so do you. Be thankful for what you do have in your life and focus on the positives. I know this is easy to say but life is just complicated if you make it complicated. As my Grandfather always told me "life is what you make it" and he was right.

As a read your post, I don't think that your life is a crap there's still time for you to make things right. You can still have a good relatinship with your family members though it requires sacrifice in some cases. Forgive those people who hurt you and forgive yourself too. Ask God's guidance for you to do that.. Gudluck! I know you can do it just have faith.. My life isn't perfect too I also experience difficulties and trials but the best and only thing that I can do is trust God and He will do the rest. I hope I was able to help you.. Have a great day!

I have felt that way many times. I think a lot of us do. Everything seems to have a reason. Though like you, I don't much understand it all either. Better to just make the best of today. Tomorrow is another new day and a new beginning. Can't change the past. But can make a better tomorrow. Take care.

look at this way things happen for a reason. its up to us to learn from that reason. i used to think the samething but once i learned that it happen for a reason im now able to help others out its up to us to improve things and work through them, and except what we cant change. and i always remember there is someone out there who have it way worst then you do, and it could always be worst. my think is i would go and get help from someone to be able to help to deal with this depression before it get any worst

don't be sad,your life isn't crap,every life is worth something 1)you won't always fight with your family,that'l change,you're only young still 2)i smoke,nothing wrong with that 3)you won't always hate your dad,and if you do,you will learn to do deal with it easier 4)you will find another love,you're young free and single,go and have some fun 5)you've got ME as a friend,so how can your life be crap xxx

Hi there friend.. Like you my life has been very complicated before. My family has a lot of problems, I have a lot of frustrations too. But you know what I thank God because I'm still here. The only thing you have to do is to accept everything that happens to you even if is good or bad. Why don't you try to serve God in spirit and in truth try to draw yourself near to him. He's the only one who can help you in times of troubles. I was like you before.. I'm full of stress and I already lose hope but when I started to be calm and understand that God has a plan for me. Everything became so smooth.. Friend everything happens for a purpose We don't know what's the purpose but bear in mind that all things work together for good. God is to wise to be mistaken, He is so good to be unkind to you. Just wait at the end you'll see that everything will be okay..

My life is difficult but not complicated, almost all people have difficulties in life being complicated depends on how we handle our life and how we deal with different situations as well.

Yes, not only us my friend, everyone's life is complicated, we should see every problem as a challenge and bot as a problem. every solution we come up for these problems makes us more smarter and more experienced in life, i personally do noy believe in god because God does not help me out with my complicated life. Instead i believe in myself and my confidence which has brought me out of troubles and all the best to you my frined

Life isn't that bad. Never forget that we're all here for a purpose. Though the crappy times never fade, that's life. It was made the way it is. A challenge everyone has to go through. Remember, whatever doesn't kill you really do make you stronger. And oh, don't forget, even though life's not tied with a bow, it's still a gift. Just hang on. Someday, you'll look back and laugh how the tough times made you tougher. =)

Yes, its all about mindset. .YOu should be mature enought to know what's the best to deal with situations like that. .we all experience that feeling but don't let yourself be drawn by feeling that your life is a piece of crap. .We all have our purpose and you should know yours. .LOve yourself and be responsible enough in making decisions. .Life is not perfect but its less complicated when we just try to live right but still having fun...

yeah mine is complicated too. no job though i'm almost 40. i know you may wonder why but the situation is complicated even if i tell you reason why i don't work if it is just too hard to explain for me. then, i don't have any friend at all and that makes simple things really complicated. cause when i am bored i haev no one to hang out with. i have to eat out alone and etc. it is not that easy. i have many things or obligations at home also and it makes me stuck at home mostly. i don't have good relationship with my family either. i don't have any talent to impress or any thing i can boast. life seems to go on just wasting my life and getting older. and it is really hard to have this kind of life. and besides i have other sorts of problems i can not share any more. but those i shared are really made my life really complicated already. and besides that i feel that i am useless too. but i hope that i can work things out and have a good life despite the bad things that are happening into my life.

Well, I was in the same situation. And one day, everything started to get better. When I tried to make things better, it did not work. It happened by itself and I'm happy now. Don't ask yourself why god created you. Only you can give a sense to your existance. Maybe God do not exist. So don't blame him. Blame you. Learn from your experience.

My friend we all have our problems and we tend to believe that our problem is more serious than for the others but the real difference comes from how we tackle each problem. You think that we are useless but be sure that you have your place here because life is priceless and something like this must have a reason. You are here for a specific reason and if you continue your life you will know what it's purpose. For the moment try to reconciliate with your family because if you didn't have one i bet that you would wish to. Everything bad that happenned to you should have happenned that's why you can't change it and everything that will happen to you will depend on your own choice whether it is good or bad. Everything happens in the mind before it materialise. Cheers Your friend.

my life is also complicated because I'm in love with someone who has a son but not married and my parents dont want him for me but I love him.

Well, if your life is anything like mine it's one thing after another. I have been trying to save part of my paycheck so I can move out for a very long time but then my boyfriend's roommate foreclosed the house and gave everyone a week to get out so I'm not only paying my rent but his and for his food, other bills, ect. My brakelines went bad 2 weeks ago and that was not cheap. I had to buy a new phone last week because I got mine wet. I got a flat tire Saturday while out of town so I couldn't make it to church Sunday. Also I was diagnosed with Crohn's disease in July and now I have $60 worth of medication to take and I'm only 19. My roommate doesn't clean up after her 8 cats so I have to scrub the floor and clean up poop everyday. So you're not the only one struggling with life right now and I hope things perk up for you because I know that I keep hoping for myself. It's the only light in the end of the tunnel.

Oh man dont be like that, you should live your life, and enjoy it. What to say on your post except I survived WAR when I was 12 years old, and the war was in 1991. You canot imagine what terible things I gone trough in my chilhood!!! And now after so manny years I am still strougling with nightmares, and a crule fact of life that we do not know what will happend next!!! So my friend enjoy your life, MUM, DAD, Brother, and everything you can, even a smoke is great!!! When I look at my life I still live in thouse days I had to go trought, and now I am a grown man and live like a loner, no Job, no perspective, no nothing... that is all... sorry on bad english