How do you know you fall in love with a girl..

November 8, 2009 11:35pm CST
how??
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• United States
9 Nov 09
You feel different. You feel like you want to be strong for her. You want to impress her. You smile much more than you use to. You are shy around her, you want to approach her, nonetheless, but you just don't know how. You talk to her to get to know her, and you see that she is the one that you have been looking for. She is a lot like you without being too much like you. You want to ask her out. You want to spend more time with her. You get jealous at any man who comes near her. You want her to be yours more than anything in the world. You care deeply about her. You cannot imagine anyone hurting her. You want to protect her. You want her to be happy. You want to give her the world. You would do anything for her. This comes from someone who has been in love. This was how I felt about my boyfriend. This how many people feel when they are truly in love. They want the absolute best for the person that they love. If something happens to that person, your heart begins to break. You smile around this person and you want so much for this person.
9 Nov 09
hehe..i see, you get sweet love.And thank you so much for your answer.sophister. i had a major crush on a gril in my senior high. and thos time, i though i met the first love in my life.but..i failed.And now,i am a sophister.nonetheless, i have never had a true love.In other words,i have never had a girlfriend..and then,in my daily life,i become a man who don't dare to love.Maye the reason is that i am not handsome, strong,tall or intelligent..could you give me a answer...ah.
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• United States
10 Nov 09
It is not a matter of how you look, it is a matter of how you carry yourself. If you are confident, and you are a gentleman, women love that, and any woman who does not love a gentleman should have her head examined. I like be treated like a woman. I don't like being called names like "baby" or "sugar". I like being called "miss" or "ma'am" because that was how I was raised. The women in my family were taught to respect others and have them respect you. It is customary. You can get the woman that you want, but you have to carry yourself well. You have to be confident. When you see the girl you like, give a small smile if that makes you feel comfortable. Not too big of a smile, but just a small nice smile. You may not think that you are handsome, but you never know. My step-brother did not think that he was handsome either, but what he did not know was that he was lacking in social skills and confidence. He is insanely smart, he is a doctor, but he needs confidence. Most men lack confidence.
11 Nov 09
ha-ha.thank you!you are a good friend..i will say to myself that"i have confidence ,i have confidenc,i can do it,i have courage",when i meet the girl i like..
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
there is always a good and heavenly feeling when one falls in love. the mere sight of the loved one is a grace in itself. a mere mention of her name will send electric shocks to one's stomach and knees. all the music and words seem to have meanings and they all make sense. you are happy and smiling in little things that remind you of her. you want to see her, be with her. that's love. and that's wonderful.
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@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
hello . if taken as it is i'd say you cannot make yourself fall in love with a girl. if you mean what should a girl have for one to fall in love with i still cannot answer that but i can give a guideline: people only view you as the partner you have. i.e., you're only as good as the one you have. so be careful and be choosy. there are many girls out there.
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
of course we can be friends . as an addition to my post: continue to cultivate, enhance yourself so you'd not be disappointed with the one you would end up with .
9 Nov 09
you are my love Consulat..you say out my mind truly..thank you for your honest answer..i think i will get big change after reading your comment.and could i make a friend with you??
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