Can you concenrtate the sermon if the preacher is chewing gum while preaching?

@Bebs08 (10681)
United States
November 9, 2009 9:07pm CST
I really don't like to see it but unfortunately I was able to see one. I lost respect with the preacher who chew gum while preaching. Why they do that? When you are talking to a big crowd you should be formal & decent specially if you are a preacher. I feel bad listening to him and looking at his mouth keeps on chewing while sharing his message.. what a degrading thing to see for a preacher. Did you experience that too? then what did you do?
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• United States
10 Nov 09
I don't think it would bother me unless he was chewing it like an animal or something. lol As long as he's just barely chewing it and you can't really see the gum very well in his mouth then I don't think it would distract me. I'm a gum chewer myself though so maybe that's why it wouldn't bother me.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Well, there's no question for me when somebody is chewing gum but not during the time of delivering a sermon because it is solemn. I am disturbed seeing him keep on chewing in between the talking. I can't concentrate because I am bothered. Very distracting.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
10 Nov 09
I WAS BROUGHT UP IN THE U.K. AND AT THAT TIME IT WS CONSIDERED VERY LOW CLASS TO CHEW GUM. WE WERE NEVER ALLOWD TO CHEW GUM AT ALL. i NEVE ALLOWD MY CHILDREN TO CHEW GUM EITHER IN THE HOUSE OR OUT WITH ME. I THOUGHT AND STILL THINK THAT IT IS A DISGUSTING HABIT. MOST PEOPLE LOOK LIKE COWS WHILST THEY ARE CHEWING. I THIK THAT I WOULD HAVE WALKD OUT OF TH CHURCH OR WHEREVER IT WAS AS THE PREACHER SHOWED NO RESPECT FOR THE CONGREGATION
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
I should have do that, to go out while the sermon is going on but I feel it is also inappropriate to do that. I don't want to add to the distraction.. I just don't look at him all the time.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Nov 09
Then you could speak to him about it - he is not God and it is a disgusting habit that he has. Vry disrspectful to the congregation. Or speak to an elder in the Church or someone to tell him
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
18 Nov 09
Wow, that is really destructive...So far, I have not seen anyone who is preaching or discussing in front of a crowd and chewing a gum, when I was teaching, it is very common to the students.. Anyway, I hope someone can remind that preacher to stop doing it, will always divide the attention and focus of the people for sure!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
20 Nov 09
It surely does, it divides the attention of the people and lost their concentration of what he was saying because he looks annoying keeps on chewing while talking.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
Ha!ha!ha! It sounds funny at first friend! But later as we dig deeper we will realize this is not really a funny thing but rather disgusting thing. Imagine how a man who claims to be a man of God does not know how holy and sacred is the word of God that every time any one preach this, he should make sure he is respectful enough. Even by the way a Pastor dress himself up before going to the pulpit, even by the way he behave himself and chewing gum is one very disrespectful gesture. Indeed he did something that degraded his personality. He was unable to experience the power of the pulpit in that case. Certainly, listeners will not be pleased to see a Pastor that looked like cow or goat chewing and chewing in fornt of them while preaching. I understand you my friend. I am happy I've not encountered such kind of Pastor or Preacher because certainly, I will not be blessed at all. If chewing gum while talking to someone is to me already rude, how much more chewing while preaching the word of God? How sad for that Pastor. I think he should go back to Bible School to be taught of the right way to behave.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I agree with you 100 percent!!! It is very disgusting to see a preacher talking in front of the congregation chewing gum in between every sentence that he said. I feel bad for him. I lost respect to people who are doing that while talking in a formal gathering. I am not against chewing gum but it should not be done when you are talking in public.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
By the way, chewing gum is by itself not a rude behavior. I myself do chew gum but I don't stand up in front of the ladies and teach them Sunday school lesson with gum in my mouth and also in whatever circumstances, I refrain from talking when chewing gum or anything. I think that is the right etiquette every one should learn.
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• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I consider that inappropriate for him to do that. There is a time for everything and surely chewing gum while you are preaching is not that time. Like you, my respect for him would be brought down, if not lost. A man of his stature should know what and which are appropriate in the premises. With him already doing that during the ongoing session, there would be no other thing for me to do except to "endure" my bad feeling by staying there till it ends. If there is a suggestion box where I can write to air my comments, I will surely comment on that.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Absolutely!! I agree with what you said. If there is really a suggestion box maybe I will put my suggestion about it but then there is none. I truly agree that it is inappropriate.
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
thanks for the BR mark. have a nice day!
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@khalida (1126)
• India
31 May 10
that is really bad, for a preacher to do that since he is addressing everyone . but i wonder, how no one in your church has complained about this issue and asked him not to do so!? it can be quite distracting1 plus usually people say that one who chews gum is usually not so confident so just to overcome their nervousness they chew gum!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
1 Jun 10
I think you are right!! he might be nervous and use the gum as defense mechanism. No body yet had told him to stop chewing gum.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I have never seen a preacher chew gum and preach! I can't imagine what it would look like, but it doesn't seem proper and I doubt that I could concentrate on the sermon, either.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
It is really hard to concentrate but I just don't look at him all the time, I focus my attention to the screen because he was using an illustration using a multimedia presentation. But even then, it is distracting every time he explained his illustrations because he is chewing in between.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
11 Nov 09
funny, i have never sat through a sermon where the preacher is chewing gum and believe me, i have been to a ton of church services in my life. it just is not done. but you are right, i think i would loose interest in the person too!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
This is the first time I've seen a preacher doing this to his congregation while sharing the message. I can't believe he doesn't feel it as inappropriate thing to do.
@udnisak (609)
• Australia
11 Nov 09
i have never experienced such a thing.. this sounds funny and stupid at the same time.. when some one dilivering a speech he or she should not be doing inapprptiate things.. sepecially when the speech is an important one..preacher should not be chewing gum while preaching and there is no argument about that.. he has to be serious.. comon it is s sermon not a joke story...
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Absolutely I agree with you. If maybe he was just having a casual talk with friends maybe it is excusable to chew gum if he really used to it but preaching?????
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I think it is quite rarely to see one as if he is speaking and chewing gum at the same time his voice would not be clearly heard. It is inappropriate to do it especially in front of many people it is informal things to do for a man of God to do it. I seen a lot of people even those singer involve in a band they always have chewing gum while singing that is quite obvious very noticeable it makes me think they have bad breath thus they always have chewing gum to cover up their smelly smiles or the simply use thee gum to clean their teeth which a very disturbing things to do. Though instead of listening to his preaching the audience would likely notice his mouth and those makes him laughable with the he is showing his mouth is moving.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Correct!! as if I lost my respect for the preacher who is doing this.
• United States
10 Nov 09
I have never experienced this, but I would lose respect for the preacher too. Chewing gum while talking in a public forum is disrespectful in any event, then what to say of preaching. As a preacher your are trying to inspire the congregation to live by God's word and yet while chewing gum you are disrespecting the same God you are telling everyone to follow. I don't get this at all. If I were you I would see him after the sermon and ask what is the purpose of his chewing gum at the podium? Also let him know how you feel about the situation?
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Well, I might have done that but I felt embarrass myself to tell him. If his wife is there, she might be the right person to tell her husband.
• India
10 Nov 09
according to chewing gum shows that u don't respect the person in front of you.you can chew gum when you are among your friends and close relations but when talking to elders and as u told talking in a crowd such action should be avoided. i go with u if i had been in your place i would have felt the same.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
well, I am not against chewing gum and that's right!! he should have done that when he was with friends and not during preaching.
@lxclark (19)
• United States
11 Nov 09
mabe the gum makes him(her) relaxin,the i guess preachin on the dais aint an easy thing. i dont mind the gum unless his(her) speech is borin.. lets pay more attention to the speech, not gum =P
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Well, that's the best thing to do, paying attention to the message but I can't do it while looking at him. Maybe I can do that with closed eyes.. hahaha
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
it's an unspoken rule... basic conduct not to chew a gum when formally conversing and much more when on a public appearance. And when one with respectable stature does this,say a preacher on a sermon, it could either be degradation of the speech or the audience. The sight maybe disturbing and unsightly no matter how discreet the manner by which it is being done, but if we see beyond the "chewing" .. and that is to undertand the person.. why he/she does it? maybe we could offer help. Most of the people i know who are on this habit said they are hardly aware that it is not acceptable. For most of them, it is a form of defense mechanism, to channel nervousness, fear, insecurity or any uncontrolled emotion felt at the moment or in getting ready for an act. Other times it is done to forge confidence. It is as if by grinding or temporarily busying the brain into doing something that tension is release. So, for some it has a stress- relieving effect. However, this cannot justify the act. If you want to go on extra mile to enlighten anyone who's in this habit to find other way of channeling their emotions to some societal accepted norm or more discreet way, then it would be of great help. To the question if i can concentrate listening to a chewing preacher? Yes, i can, especially if the sermon is interesting and if he gives beautiful insights. Yet after the sermon, my mind would initially wander on thoughts y did he do that?^_^
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
I agree with everything you said. I don't know what his problem was? whether he was nervous, insecure or what? But then, my point is that... he should respect God by being serious in his sermon not just like he was having an ordinary talk. He doesn't look cool doing that but he is disrespectful.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
4 Oct 15
I find it very distractive trying to listen to someone who is constantly chewing and I cannot imagine why he would be so inclined to do this.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I have never noticed this but I think it would bother me. I have seen others give speeches with gum in their mouth and it was very distracting.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I know.. it is really distracting. I don't like it..
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
Oh boy that preacher must have some serious addiction towards eating gum that he forgot he has some gum in his mouth. I hope he wouldn't do that again as it is indeed a turn off for them. I hope someone from your parishioners would tell him for his own good too.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I wish somebody would tell him about it maybe he needs to be reminded. I felt embarrass to do it myself. I wish there is somebody close to him who can tell him about and would give him advice. He is young though that is why maybe he is acting like a kid. He has a good message but I was distracted by his chewing all the way until he was done.
• China
10 Nov 09
Oh, bebs, you're right! I don't think it's proper to chew gum while sermon. Yes, they can chew gum in their daily life, even if they communicate with other believers. But sermon is a very formal way to preach God's words. And they are professional! Luckly, I never see this situation here. I think they should learn to respect God more. And it maybe make them to give up this bad habit!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I agree with you. It doesn't matter if he will chew gum anywhere but not in the pulpit while he preach. It is very disturbing to the congregation. I don't think it is proper to do that. He is like a kid who doesn't know any manners. hahahah
• United States
10 Nov 09
Maybe he has dry mouth and needs it to help him generate salvia. Now if he starts blowing bubbles I gotta put my hand up and it won't be to testify.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Nov 09
hahahah that is really a funny thing if he starts blowing bubbles. hahaha..his audience might go out from the place. hahaha
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 15
I think it is rude for anyone to be chewing gum and holding a conversation with someone else. It is the height of bad manners!