Can your best friend be your worst enemy?
By shona264
@shona264 (167)
India
7 responses
@buping (952)
• China
11 Nov 09
hi shona, i think it is possible. when i was in college, a girl was good to me, she treated me as her close friend, but i do not. what heppened later? she wanted my boyfriend. she is ugly and bad temper, but she does not know how much people dislike her, when she talked to my boyfriend, my boyfriend asked her go away from us, and he also tole me about this.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
yes, it's possible since your best friend is the very first person who knows mostly everything about you. he/she might use it as a way of making your life miserable because you had a fight or a certain argument. well that is if you mistakenly chose a best friend who's mean.
@anotherxidentity (1434)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I think in a way a friend could be your worse enemy. With friends you have to be a lot more careful about what you say and what you do around them. Its like one move could ruin the entire relationship which can damage you more than if some average joe got mad at you. You care about this person so therefore if something goes bad you're more emotionally attached. And with best friends it is even worse. You're suppose to be able to know everything that bothers them, who they like without them saying etc. Even though this could be the case I don't think this should hinder people about making friends and best friends.
@pcloverstalk (41)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I say yes. For one reason that as best friends, you know exactly what he or she is like. You know her more than others know.
In a lifetime, you would not expect that in some ways or another, your roads will cross. In that way, you get to love someone that your best friend also adore most, its just a vivid illustration but is always possible.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Hi Shona, and welcome to MyLot.
Some people I THOUGHT were friends have turned out instead to be enemies, and what a hurtful thing that is...even some family members here and there.
A true friend would never hurt us to the point we'd consider them our enemy, though.
Karen