whom are you going to choose, a real friend or a not sure lover?

Philippines
November 10, 2009 1:06am CST
i once entered the situation of having a girlfriend and of course friends will also be there.my girlfriend will always feel jealous when she saw me together with my friends.she will always confront me about this and even letting me away from my friends.but i just can't do it for our friendship is already existed before my girlfriend came to my life.the sad part is when i ask my girlfriend to have date with me she refuses and will always told me that she's busy and so there's no other person that i can invite aside from my friend.when i call her,she will come right away.when my girlfriend knew this, she made me chose,she or my friend. i had already decided that i could find a new girlfriend but not a friend as what i have now.so both of us have decided to stop our relationship.how about you, whom are you going to choose, a real friend or a not sure lover?
2 responses
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
Oh! that's sad. Your girlfriend is so confusing. Why should she act that way, when she's not even there when you wanted her to be with you. And, besides, she should trust you, right? If she doesn't, then why should you stay in that relationship. It's just a headache! Let her go, for sure, somebody whom you can build a stronger relationship is just around.
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
hi! thank you for that..i agree with you..she's not just the only girl living in this big world..i can find someone if i want too...hehehe...
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I've been through your situation before I get married I'd rather choose my friend than my boyfriend its because we've been through a lot of times together but if you will be able to make your girlfriend understand that friends can never become a lover unless you want to. Its normal to get jealous just assure her that you cannot afford to cheat on her.Just be open & flat to your girlfriend in order for your relationship as a smooth sailing, if it will not work out then time to move on & find somebody else worth loving & living for.