What is scary, if anything, about your relating intimately with someone?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
November 10, 2009 7:25am CST
Hmm.. I'd be scared if after everything he would just tell me he had found someone else. Or worst, if he'd confess eventually that he was married with kids. But I think the scariest would be when he would tell me that he was gay. I'd sure go gaga over that. I could remember when a friend confided with me about her friend who was confused when after 15years of marriage and 3 kids, her husband suddenly declared he was gay. And from then on, would really act gay in front of everyone else and would even treat her as a bestfriend. It's sad but it does happen. What about you? What scary?
2 responses
EdTv00
@EdTv00 (298)
• United States
10 Nov 09
There is nothing to fear, but fear it self. I think what happened with your friends husband was he probably felt like he had to pretend to be straight in order to please people (his parents maybe) just a theory.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Oh yeah, that was what I thought instantly when the story was shared. Perhaps he felt that he has done his part of being what they wanted him to be, and now that he's older, he'd like to happy of who he is for a change. It's just sad because it has affected a family that could have been avoided had he been true to himself early on.
EdTv00
@EdTv00 (298)
• United States
17 Nov 09
Yeah unfortunately this will have a big impact on the lives of his children, he should of thought about this before though.
my_name_is_coco
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
I'd be scared if my husband will confess to me that he has sexually transmitted disease.doubly so if he got it from fooling around with a woman.I will be scared for myself and my children.what if I got that disease also?what will happen to me?what will happen to my children?I don't see anything positive if he confesses to that.I won't think twice about leaving him.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Oh yeah, that's something to be afraid of too. How you look at a person who confesses cheating just can't be seen as a positive thing, most especially if it's a disease that is incurable.