Do you often tell or show about what you feel to the person?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
November 10, 2009 8:22am CST
There are times where I would rather not want to say anything when I get angry with the person, but I show him/her what I felt by being aloof or simply ignore. Because I don't want to regret by saying not so good words.
When I like the person, more likely I tell then later show why I like him/her. How about you, are you vocal with what you feel? or you're more into showing with your feelings or both?
6 responses
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I am not an expressive person to my feelings, I have difficulty expressing them especially when I have to show people how much I care. I am more of an introvert person because even if I feel very thankful or please, I just can't express it. I envy those people who can easily hug someone and say their thanks because people know me as though and strong - willed. If I ever show them a soft spot, I know I will be ridiculed and I don't want it.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
Oh, it must tough on your part. Well I think people won't ridiculed or considered you as weak if you express what you feel. Because we're human and we have a heart not just mind. That's why there are those people who don't know that they are being love and appreciated simply because there are so many people who are afraid or don't know how to express their feelings. You can try little by little. And you'll see the difference.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@erickaellaine (10)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
i think thats my problem. I dont have the confidence to express my feelings to the person i really like. Even if i know that this person likes me too.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
11 Nov 09
There are times when I dont want to say anything to whoever I am with. but like you I have my ways of showing them how i feel. it depends on the person. Sometimes its not talking to them or whatever.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
11 Nov 09
hi, careguarden
Wen it comes to feelings I'm not consistent in showing or saying it to the person i love. Not because i don't love my partner it's just that sometimes I'm holding back my feelings, emotions. I'm afraid to be hurt or rejected sometimes. When i don't feel good i prefer to be quiet rather than saying anything that may hurt my partner. But being quiet often worsen the issues.
@vincyk (198)
• China
10 Nov 09
I like to share my mood to my friend and when i am happy or sad ,i will choose to share with them.I am a person can't hold secrets and i do't want to hide my feelings and show other body a fake me,so i want to show my true characteristic.I think show what you feel to the person is also a good way to conduct yourself and if you are happy ,then the atmosphere between you and that guy will be pleasant and sweet,if you are not happy,then after others kind tips you will clear up and have the courage to face the new life.
