is happiness possible with a man or a woman who is not free?
By smallcloud
@smallcloud (338)
Malaysia
November 10, 2009 11:20am CST
it is said that you cant force love. thus, what if i am attracted to someone who i snot free to become involved in another relationshiup?
is happiness not more importatn than social rules?and do you really belice that someone who is already committed in a marriage relationshiup and who tries to seduce you can truly fulfill his promises of love toward you?
2 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
Hello smallcloud,
How can someone who is married and committed can make any promise do come true?
The reality that he/she is already married and committed is there to see...he/she is not free anymore.
Granting that he/she made a promise to you...but how can he/she fulfill it when he/she is not free to do so?
And,i don't believe in any committed person saying a promise when he/she can't even stay faithful for the vows of their marriages!!!
That's a BIG LIE....!!!
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
10 Nov 09
me too, i also cant believe those in a relationship but still saying love you to another person in the same time. it seem like playing but not serious. one u get into a relatioship , it should be focus on the person who u are together with right now, is it?cant understand why today so many the third party still can believe that the one together with her/him is using the true heart to love him/her.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
that i simple my friend...no one will be deceived when no one deceives...and no one deceives when nobody wants to be deceived.
I wonder why there are single women who accept being a mistress when they can find single men for them 
...(immorals)
...(immorals)
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
if your happiness is to have a complicated relationship, then that's a choice. loving someone whom know isn't already free is a very tough thing but forgetting that person is just a one big beat on your part rather than having him into a very wrong relationship. everyone must make a sacrifice.
