I can't commit to a relationship

Honestly, you are not in love. You are just attracted to the person who is right in front of you. About being afraid of committing to someone just because you see flaws is one hell of a reasons. No hard feelings but if you really do love someone you'll accept her even if she's the ugliest person that you'll ever meet. What goes around, comes around. Think again.

in cases like these, you don't need to have a girlfriend. if you don't have any plans of loving a girl then i i guess it's best that you stop courting somebody. you're way of thinking is so immature. you know for a fact that you're not ready but them you still engage yourself from having a serious relationship. learn to be aware that you can hurt other feelings just because of your rude actions. i'm telling you thise because i'm also a girl and every girl requires to be given worth.

Well wait till she gets through her exams and end it. If you want to be a single guy on the prowl then be that. Don't hang on to a relationship that is not going to go anywhere you are just wasting her time. You just have not found the right person yet and when you do you will commit. In the mean time it is OK to experiment, not every relationship is meant to work out. But once that right person comes along you will know it and you will be able to commit.

..well, i guess you are not really in love, instead you are just attracted.. it's just a simple attraction that you mistakenly understood as love.. because love doesn't fade easily as what you feel right now.. you should have examined your feelings carefully before going into a relationship because when girls feel in love, most of them give everything they have and it really hurts when the one you love just leave you because he has found somebody better.. I know how it feels since I'm a woman.. It appears that you just took advantage of these ladies who fell in love with you though it may not be your intention.. but this is the reality that you have to face.. this is why for me, you better think very carefully if you really love the girl or not.. for now, just help your girlfriend concentrate.. depressed or hurting woman cannot concentrate on what they do.. so please don't break up with her yet until her examination is over because as of now, she is facing a very big challenge in her life that is to pass the licensure exam.. If you break up with her, there is a very big tendency that she will lost control of herself and focus that may lead her to fail..

why do u feel afraid?something like what?in love we must to be brave..brave to love someone,and brave to lose someone.when u feel uncomfort in relationship,i think it's normally u feel boring.. u will feel that when u get married,off course..but it's important that u have to know,love will delete all of your afraid,n remember... you must be Brave To Commit in a relationship if you want to beloved by someone..dont afraid to take a risk.okay?

If you don't believe in Karma then its time for you to believe it now. Next don't rush into a relationship just because you miss having a girl who loves you? Common don't give me a damn reason take your time enjoy the moment being single. You never know how much it hurts until it is done to you.

Let the process run relationships naturally, and one day your heart will choose one of them.

I think you probably haven't found "the one" just yet. I don't think you should lower your standards but I would suggest that you go back to being on the prowl instead of being with someone you're not into. Just make sure you mess with girls who are also on the prowl so no strings attached.

I also don't want to be committed in relationship. I just like to enjoy myself with their company and i don't like an obligation. It's more safer if you don't commit so you won't get hurt. Well in your case, talk to her about your feelings after the board examinations and i know she will understand. Being single is not bad at all. But sometimes loneliness is killing me. Good luck to you. And be good.

Sounds like you have a fear of committment and shouldn't be in a relationship right now. Wait for her to take her exam, and in the meantime examine your feelings. No need to be on the prowl just yet. Take your time.

instead of making a decision based upon this feeling, you're observing it and noticing a pattern. Is this pattern getting you what you WANT in life. I don't mean right now, today, your need for variety or recognition or appreciation. I mean, what do you want in life? If your pattern isn't working for you, pick a new one. You could try a new approach and GIVE her everything you want. shower her with affection, bring her coffee while she studies, tell her that this close-ness is new to you & you're freaking out a bit. If long-term is what you want, go for it and don't let your past become your forever. Be open to love and understand that she may show it differently than you do. Good luck