dont want children right away, what should she do?
By smallcloud
@smallcloud (338)
Malaysia
November 10, 2009 11:39pm CST
hey every mylotters, my cousin found her true love and going to married next month,
she want to give herself completely to each other, and in all the dimensions of her being, in the joy that is both offered and share, with this great ability to give the life that is present in her.
but she is not ready yet
how can she do?seem like her partner really eager to have own child and also his family too.
1 response
@EnglishTeaDuck (862)
• United States
11 Nov 09
I'm not sure I understood this right - are you saying she is happy to be getting married, but she just doesn't want children yet, although her partner does?
If I have understood that right, I don't really see the problem with that. I think it is pretty unwise to have children the second you get married anyway - marriage is a big adjustment and to bring a child into it immediately is an even bigger strain.
I would hope he is marrying her for herself, not JUST for children, and then hopefully will be willing to wait until she is ready. It is, after all, a huge thing for a woman to go through.
I hope it all goes well for them.
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 09
ya but the problem is my cousin dunno how to tell her partner what is her thinking while her partner is still happily to imagine the life of both of them and also their child..
she cant bear to make him dissapointed
