how do you get on with your mother-in-law?
By nora2009
@nora2009 (21)
China
November 11, 2009 1:20am CST
hi all, are you get on well with your mother-in-law?
i think it is not a easy thing,in fact ,a very difficult thing,
do you have any good ideas to that ?tell me ,haha
3 responses
@2babita (1072)
• India
11 Nov 09
Well nora,i think nothing is diffecult nowadays,if i behave good the opposite person have to be good.Yes,it may take some time but with good behaviour we can change bad person into good.
@moonchild117 (1987)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
My mother-in-law and I have a good relationship. So far, after a year and three months of being married to her son, we haven't fought about anything yet. I respect my mother-in-law and if she's not in a good mood, I give her space. When she has something to say, I listen even if she's sometimes wrong. But I guess what's good about her, too, is that she allows me and my husband to make decisions of our own. She just likes to give advice, but she always tells us that at the end of the day, we're the ones to decide for our family.
@aaguelo (69)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
Just take in her advices, they might not be practical or acceptable to you. Or show yourself interested to what she is talking about. Before, it was hard for me to get along with my mother-in-law, but I tried to listen to her stories and sentiments in life. In short, I listened every word she was saying. Then I valued every suggestions and advices she gave me in marriage and during my pregnancy. It was really worthy.
