Are you HAPPY?

@free_man (7330)
United States
November 11, 2009 5:11pm CST
Are you happy? A simple question don't you think? I have never been as happy in my life as I am now! I have the best partner I could have ever had in my life! We work hard together and we play just as hard together! We share all the responsibilities neither of us do all the work, I mean if I clean my partner cleans, if I cook my partner cooks. We share all the chores and we share all the fun! This is the best friend I have ever had! So really are you happy right now? Do you have a hard time waiting to see your mate? Hope all of you are at least as happy as we are and have a great day!
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@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Hi free_man, That is really nice! I'm happy for you and the happiness you have right now is amazing. You must be so lucky to have a partner like that, and for sure she's so lucky to have you as well. There are times that I am not happy.... I always wanted to do more and I always expect myself to be the best person that I can be. In short, I was not contented with my life. But recently, I realized that "life" is not always about me/myself. It should always be other people, especially those whom I always spend my life with. Like family and friends. I can now say that I am happy! I am happy for I have the best parents, sister, brother and friends in the world. I am happy because I have come to realize how important life is... Happy mylotting!
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
That is wonderful!.. very inspiring! Indeed, God has a plan for the both of you and I hope your relationship will last forever... Happy mylotting to you and Stay in love and Happy!
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Hello Danity yes I feel like God does have plans for us, I believe that is the reason God put us together. We will live together forever I do feel like God put us together forever. Have a great day!
@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
We are both lucky since God seen fit to bring us together. Life is what you make of it, if you make yourself happy you will be able to make others happy. When we get stressed out we both pray and ask God to guide us and sure enough the day seems to be a lot better when we do what we think is right by God. Have a great day!
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Hi freeman.Ü I am glad that you have already found your mate. I am also happy that your relationship is going pretty well. I know its so hard to look for the perfect partner as it doesn't exist. I believe that the two of you works together to create that harmony. And because of that, you enjoy each others company. Whatever happens to both of you, i just hope you keep on understanding each other and love each other especially the key to every relationship, which is trust, respect and communication. As for myself, i am not struggling to find a mate yet. I am happy. And that's what important, right? Take care and stay inlove!
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• Philippines
13 Nov 09
You're so in love! That's tears of joy and not the other. I am just glad that you have already found each other. Thanks for the advice i know God has plans for me, and for us. I will just totally entrust my life to Him. Take care and stay in love.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello Koalapenguin. I said a prayer for my mate and God provided me with my mate. We trust God to guide us each and every day. If you are looking for that special someone to share your life my advice would be to pray and ask God for that special someone. God didn't create any of us to be totally alone. I am so happy that you are happy with your life. We will be together forever I believe that God put us together. Be happy have a great day!
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@MrKennedy (1978)
12 Nov 09
To answer your question: Yes, I am happy, and there's no reason why I shouldn't feel this way. I believe I am one of the luckiest people alive, and here's why: -- I have a very loving, generous and caring family who are always there to support me and are very proud to call me a son. -- I have a good social life full of marvellous friends who are always loyal to me and understand me. -- I am in good health, with no medical conditions or disabilities, for which I am incredibly grateful for. -- I live in a brilliant country that offers magnificent health-care and all the basic needs we often take for granted, plus all the extra commodities that make our lives that extra bit more satisfying to live. -- I am financially secure with no debts or money issues. I am eternally thankful for my situation, and feel sympathy for those that are less privileged than I.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Hello MrKennedy. Wow sounds like you have it all and that is a good thing. It is nice to have so much and be happy with ones life. I thank God daily for all the blessing I have. Be happy and have a great day!
@yyfyqb (97)
• United States
12 Nov 09
i think i am happy. i spend my days thinking about food,detergent or how to save money. it is not at all the life i choose for myself. but some times i look up and i realize i am happy.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Hello Yyfyqb and welcome to my lot. I need a lot of stuff but I put my problems in Gods hands and leave them when I get up I just turn them all over to God and everything works out fine! Don't worry be happy and have a great day!
• United States
12 Nov 09
i am happy, and i am just as lucky! i have a great family,wonderfull friends, and i also have mje!im lucky i have a house food to get water to drink and people who love me. i am lucky too be alive. everyday i wake up i thank god for all of my blessing and i am so excited to still live...so i live too the fullest and i am cery curious too see what will happen!!!
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Hello Carter and welcome to my lot. Isn't it great to be this happy? It is so nice to have someone to love and be loved like this. Be Happy and have a great day!
@sknsknskn (393)
• India
23 Feb 10
Awesome things to be happy for! Im happy for my family and a roof over my childrens heads :) And for cinnamon rolls...LoL' Have a great day!! :D
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Feb 10
Hi Sknsknskn. I am happy for all the blessings God has given me. Hope you have a great day too!!
• India
12 Nov 09
So happy to know that you and your partner are the best of friends…this is what actually makes or breaks many marriages. The moment you start going ‘your/mine’, your marriage is most likely to go downhill. Personally, hubby and me share a similar relation…we’re married for 12 years now and have a 10yr old son…as of now I am very happy and content with whatever life has offered me. My wants are simple and I live within my means, which I feel is equally important to have a happy life.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
You are so right Sudiptacallingu we have to live in our means and be happy with what ever God has given us. Congrats on 12 years of marriage and your beautiful son. God has really blessed you. I think it is so important to become friends before lovers that way you have something to start a real happy life on. Thanks for sharing have a great day! Be Happy!
@tontunan (254)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I am happy not just because of the things I am having now. But I am happy because I am granted a life, an opportunity to live in this world. I am happy because I am able to enjoy life's beauty and I am happy because I am able to spread goodness in this world.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello Tontunan. Wow that is great to be happy. It is always nice to spread all the goodness we can each day. It is good that God gave you such a great site on life. Be happy have a great day!
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I'm always happy with my life even though I have lots of problems. I think people who say that happiness is a state of mind are right. I've seen proof of this so many times in my country. Being a Third-World country, we have so many problems, but even so, our country is one of the happiest nations in the world! In fact, we are much happier than some First-World countries. I have lots of worries in my life right now, but I still manage to find good things to be thankful for.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Wow that is a great way to look at life Angela. We all have some problems in our lives it is wiser not to let those worries get us down. Life is too short to worry about the little things in this world it is better to take each moment as if it is a gift. Because it is a gift from God to have that moment! BE Happy have a great day!
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@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Hi free_man,Yes sure,i am really happy of what i have now.I have a one big happy family that makes me inspire.What more i can ask for?Good day!
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello Hazelrose. Sounds like you are really happy with your life and that is great. Stay happy and have a great day!
• China
12 Nov 09
hi,free-man,sometimes I am not happy ,sometimes I feel happy,I think there are many reasons,sometimes feel I am a very complicated man,sometimes wandering,sometimes it is clear.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello Thebest. I don't have those days since we let God be our guide. We are pretty happy with what we have! I am sorry your not happy most of the time. We don't complicated things we say thank you for everything. Being Complicated can't be good for you. Not wise to confuse your life with things good to be happy with what God gave you! Be Happy have a great day!
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
i hope i will be soon... Good for you, i hope that happiness lingers in you and your partner. Of the many strangers we meet everyday... its hard to end with someone that feels just right. Lucky you and your partner, you have found each other. Best of life ahead.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello Morningdew and welcome to my lot. We don't let others decide how we feel about each other we will tell someone to get away from us if they want to talk bad about either of us. We truly believe that God put us together. We were both in bad relationships and both of us prayed and we are now we have been together for a few years. So what God puts together no man/woman can separate! Be happy have a great day!
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
WOw! That's so amazing, mr. free_man. I have known only few couples where either of them can say he or she is happy having such a partner. Well, keep being that way. Wish you both to grow old together and happier. For me I still could hardly say that I am happy..Not all are blessed with good partner or better yet a faithful partner. So, again, stay that way. Regards to your lucky betterhalf.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Thanks Keshlois. We will be together forever we make sure we tell each other how much we love and appreciate each other daily we have such a great life together. I can't see my life without my special honey. Have a great day!
@fhl123 (2)
• China
12 Nov 09
it is lucky that you have such a partner!everyone want to be happy!all the time...
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Hello Fhl and welcome to my lot. Be happy in what ever you do with your life. Have a great day!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Nov 09
free man yes I think I am as I am determined to be happy right now where I am as being sad makes me feel bad, and who needs that. sure things could be 'better but they were much worse as we had to sleep in a Salvation army hospitality house for a week, and now I am here in a retirement center that is paid for out of my social security and ssi checks, and my son is just two miles away in a gov.sponsored apt with three other men all of whom are looking for work.so it may not be ideal but it is a safe place for me to live until things perk up for us.I am glad you have agreat partner that shares equally with you,i and my husband did that all our married life, and it was a happy life too.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
11 Nov 09
I am so happy to hear you are happy Hatley. I think that life without happiness is a sad life to live. I am glad you are close to your son. We strive each and every day to be happy as we can and we thank God for the happiness we have this day and everyday. Have a great day Hatley!
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
11 Nov 09
I am happy with what I have now. Of course, there are things in my life that I wish were different but as it stands, I am contented and happy about a lot of things that I have in my life. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We fight and in fact we had a disagreement days ago, but we always make up because we are very much in love.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Hello RG. I think it is best to make the best out of what you have and try your best to be happy. I have never really been happy in my life, Not like I am now. We have a pretty good life together. We don't really have disagreements. I guess since our birthdays are only days apart we are more like the other then we sometimes realize. Hope you have a great day RG! Be happy!
@sheng84 (22)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Yes.. I can say that i am happy.. so happy indeed. Like you i also met the best boyfriend. Who is not afraid to show his true feelings, who shares everything in his mind, who support me in everything, who understand me, who doesn't forget to ask me if I'm ok, who always care and show love. I never thought of meeting someone like him who will do everything just to make me happy and make me smile and laugh. :-)
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello Sheng and welcome to my lot. It is always great when you can find someone so special that will treat you like you are special. It is great to have someone to stand by your side and make you feel like you are right in what ever you do. Be happy have a great day!