How Fun is it to Have a Lover?

there are two sides in the relationship. first, you get to have fun and enjoy the company with some one you love, flirt and date here and there. downside, getting to know also the negative attitude and possible conflict of interest.not to mention that you also have to sacrifice a little bit of what you usually do and sacrifice a bit of your freedom for the sake of relationship. and you have towork it out to make it work, compromise, i mean.

hello there, you are top rank in LOVe discussions, well marriage means you have choosen your partner for life, It is one of our biggest decision in life. A lot of people may have different translation for this, but for me, the bond of marriage is a bond of Love and having a Family, nourishing the love and raising your family. ( of course setting aside the biblical meaning of marriage.)

Well we aren't married yet but I would say that you could definitely consider me and my girlfriend lovers. I would say that life has never been as fun as it is with her and I find it hard to even imagine what life would be like without her. Love is a lot of fun and one of the best parts of my life right now. I love my girlfriend.

I think it's fun to have a lover but if you're in a relationship with someone, with the fun comes with the crap, too. It's normal anyway. I am 23 and I am very happy because the relationship I have now has been going well for the last 5 years. We have our fights and arguments but they do not sum up our entire relationship. So, well, I can't tell you from a married perspective but I can say that I am happy with my boyfriend.

You want to find out I can show you...lol I'm just kidding. Anyways it's nice to have someone to come home to and share your day with, and intimacy. I'm single now, but I have live in girl friends before so I know.

I am married for 11 years now.. With God's Grace it keeps on stronger and stronger. so if you are going to ask me "am i happy with the relationships? I AM... AND i THANK God for it. Do I believe in divorce. it could be better than hurting each other. people sometimes marry for wrong reason/s, that may result to a lot of misunderstanding. so before marrying, ask yourself if you have a clear understanding of what you are into, and are you willing to give-up a part of you to accommodate the other person? if you can do that, and can sustain that them by all means Go... Enjoy...

I never had a relationship. I don't know if I am qualified. But I am happy to learned that you experience happy marriage and it lasted 2 decades now. Congratulations to you! I hope the continued success in your relationship will be for eternity. As I saw with my parents relationship it is full of hardship and sacrifices. My father have difficult personality which I too hate. I hate his attitude, he can easily get angry over a shallow things and he always start a fight with my mother. he is now 60 years old but he never stop doing it. My mother eventhough he experience these things with my father she still manage to be inside their marriage, she said it is because of us her children. How I love them both, eventhough my father have bad attitude he still have the kindness inside. Honestly I would never want a guy like my father, I wish a guy that will be my future husband is opposite of his attitude. I want this man to be gentle and understanding.

I believe Love will make the world go round. However, marriage will make the world go round if both of you love each other very very much. Therefore, I would advise every young and loving people to go for the genuine love so that they can live happily ever after :) One sided love will only make the world go half-round...