Do you think my best friend doesn't want to talk with me?

Indonesia
November 12, 2009 12:57am CST
I have a best friend, she and I used to disscuss everything. Afterlong time, I meet her in facebook and we exchange yahoo messanger address. One, twice or more we talk but lately when she is on line and I notice from my yahoo messanger.. it seems she doesn't like to talk with me. I conclude this because every time I say hi, how are you .. she doesn't reply me untill she sign off.. What's wrog with her or with me? I say sorry still she doesn't want to talk with me...
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5 responses
• China
14 Nov 09
maybe there is something sad that happened on her.and she is depressed recently,she just want to keep silence ,and don't want to make u depressed.so ...i don't know the real reason,but i do believe everything happened has its own reason.maybe there are some misunderstandings between you and her.she misunderstood you.so she is angry with you.if it is convenient for you two to meet each other,you can make a conversation with her.let her know your ideas and make it clear what happened to her.if it is inconvenient,write her a letter ,tell her what you are thinking.we should cherish our friendship,but if she just don't want to talk with you without any reason,just 'cause she changes,that's fine.don't pay attention on her any more.it isn't worth.but at first,you should know what happened between you two.
• Indonesia
16 Nov 09
Thanks for your comment. I had better have a positive thinking toward my friends.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
17 Jul 10
Well excepting less and accepting friends for what they are..will make it a long lasting friendships.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 09
I am so sorry to hear about the relationship that happens between you and your best friend. Perhaps there is some misunderstanding arise from some conversation. Some people are quite sensitive about certain issues. If you really treasure this friendship, perhaps you need to find some means what is the problems and solve it. Give her some time, do not pressure her too much. All the best and hope you all will be friends again. Perhaps send a wonderful Christmas wishes, or New Year wishes at the end of the year :)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 09
Hi, i am so sorry to hear that.Interlace your friendship over this, there is little estangement because there is not something you should know. The easiest way is ask your friend why she did not want to discuss? You should ask to passmesagge so not everyone can read it. Maybe he will be honest about its causes. Have a nice day
@xTricia (50)
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
I'm sorry to hear that. Anyway, maybe you had a little misunderstanding with her; most people are sensitive towards a few issues. Continue to make friends with her and give out a hand, but do not force her to actually want to talk to you if she doesn't want, just let her be and soon enough she'll realize that she misses having you around. You know, in any type or relationship or friendship, there always comes a time when you actually turns into being misunderstood. Even as she doesn't want to have you around anymore, if you really want to keep your friendship with her, play your role as her friend even so. Make her feel that your friendship with her is true to the heart and that your apology is as true as you!