Why do you think some people find it hard to find a suitable partner when others

actually finding true love is very difficult and it needs time to prove. for me, i find it hard to find my Mr right. i still do not know how to make the trueheart person. so i am confused too .

There is a positive way to look at people who are single you know, and that is that they are capable of being on their own. I have known people who went from relationship to relationship like that. For some, it just happens that way, it suits them and thats fine. But for some people, they buy into the myth that you are only worth something if you are in a relationship. For others, if they are not in a relationship they don't know what to do with themselves - maybe they measure their worth by it, maybe they never got to know themselves enough to be ok on their own. I don't think it means there is anything 'wrong' with you - I would be more inclined to think that about someone who went to anew relationship a couple of days after the old one ended. It makes me wonder how much the first one meant to them, and makes them seem rather shallow.

My brother is still single and he is already 50 years old. I should say he is too choosy and a bit reserve. All other brothers below him are happily married. I don't understand why some people can't find partner easily. Even those who are handsome and those pretty ladies remain single and eventually become spinster. I don't really think it is hard to find a suitable partner if one try to be a little social. It is not good for man or woman to be alone, they should have a partner to share their life.

hi hotsummer, i am the kind of guy who would take a lot of time to get into a relationship, i find it hard for me to get the right person i mean i am a little sensitive and it would hurt me if things go wrong, so i don't look anywhere now and i am quiet young too, erm.. ok ok not too young to have a girl friend but yeah, commitment is what i look for and i can't stand girls who can just go break up with someone and find some other guy just the next day, i don't actually like people like that who don't take this seriously, i guess it doesn't really much matter to them coz i think they look for some companionship or something to pass time with, something like that but yeah that is just my guess i should not be speaking much about it, when it comes to commitment i am pretty serious about it, i don't want to hurt others and i don't want to get hurt as well, so it would right for me to wait and see who will be the special one for me!... i don't want to be single all my life....lol

There are a number of reasons. Maybe it's also because some are unlucky and others are luckier. I don't think it has much to do with looks. Believe me, I've seen some funny looking people but they still manage to get a mate for one reason or another. I don't fall easily but I've been lucky to have found my match. I think it's also to do with social circles, too, so you can meet potential mates as well.

Im someone who cant find love easily. Its mainly because i take sometime to get used to someone. So i cant develop feelings so fast nor can i move on from the past relationship fast enough. I often wonder if people who move on so easily did love their ex's. Or did they just be with them for the sake of it. If thats true then i must say its pretty sad. I look pretty decent so hooking up was never an issue. Just that i could never move on so fast, thats all.

I don't know, I don't think I'm a good looking guy but sometimes there are girls that do tend to fall for me. Maybe it's my sense of humor, so I do tend to find love easily. Having said that I had a period of six years when this girl hurt me so bad that I didn't want to meddle with girls and just wanted to party with my friends which I found that much more fun than having GF's.